The Next Thing On My List by Jill Smolinski

After a car accident in which her passenger, Marissa, dies, June Parker finds herself in possession of a list Marissa has written: “20 Things to Do by My 25th Birthday.” The tasks range from inspiring (run a 5K) to daring (go braless) to near-impossible (change someone’s life).

To assuage her guilt, June races to achieve each goal herself before the deadline, learning more about her own life than she ever bargained for.

So what do you do with a story line like this?  Well, if you are me you wonder what causes the accident and what is on that list?????

This book was one of those books that you pick up and get into right from the start.  The character of June is funny and strong willed.  She carries with her this burden of the accident being her fault (after all, Marissa’s seat belt was off only because June had to have that Taco Soup recipe!  (Which by the way I highly recommend making!)  And June had just met Marissa that night at the meeting when she got up to receive her lifetime achievement award for losing 100 pounds!

As June goes through the list, working to complete Marissa’s dreams, we see that it is June who grows as a person.  She becomes more confident in herself as she puts herself out there “for the list” and on a grand scale, the list isnt anything unachievable with things on it like:

Lose 100 pounds

Throw away the bathroom scale

Try Boogie Boarding

Eat Ice Cream In Public

Make Buddy Fitch Pay

There are more things on the list and each one just adds to the fun of this book.  After all who is Buddy Fitch and what did he do that he has to pay?

A wonderful book club read – we reviewed it last night and we had a lot of fun discussing Marissa’s list and making our own as well.  We each pulled one thing from our list and put it in an envelope.  We mixed them up and passed them out again.  Each of us read what the paper said on our envelope and tried to guess who’s list that as on.  This was a lot of fun and we learned about each others dreams.

We now know that many us have dreams of traveling, one of us wants their pilots license, one hopes to be a master chef, see all 50 states, slow dance in the rain with their husband, learn spanish, ride a mechanical horse, 2 wish to become published authors….

These discussions make for the best book club reviews!

Charming and fun – I would recommend this book as quick read that will make you really think about your own life goals.  I would also highly recommend this for those of you in book clubs.  This is a wonderful discussion book and there is a reading group guide in the back of the book.

Stop in and see Angie from By Book Or By Crook and read her review of this book.  Angie is part of our book Club!

I purchased my copy from Amazon

Bookies overall rating on a scale of 1 – 5 (5 being the best)

4

Bookies Picks for 2009

We had our first book club meeting of the year last night and that also means we recapped 2009.  Every December we do a survey on our picks from the year and then I put all of our reviews into a book format that everyone receives a copy of and in this book, I reveal the winners – and losers- of 2009 per their voting.

Now… I can share the results with you:

First of all here are the books we read as a book club in 2009

(all questions on the survey were to be answered by using these books)

Sarah’s Key by Tatiana De Rosnay

Such a pretty Fat by Jen Lancaster

Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah

The Book Thief By Marcus Zusak

Water For Elephants by Sara Gruen

Walking In Circles Before Lying Down by Merill Markoe

Wednesday Sisters by Meg Waite Clayton

Pope Joan by Donna Woolfork Cross

A Tree Grows In Brooklyn by Betty White

Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls

Home For The Holidays by Rebecca Kelly

And here are the survey results:

Favorite Female Character:  Pope Joan


Favorite Male Character:  Jacob from Water for Elephants   *(with an honorable mention to Pope Joan)

Best new (to us) author:  Sara Gruen (Water For Elephants)

Best Over All Author (new or old): Donna Woolfolk Cross/ Sara Gruen

Worst Book Of The Year:

Walking In Circles Before Lying Down

Best Book Of The Year:


There it is!  We had a great recap meeting… laughed as always at our funny memories of the year (Dressing in Prom Dresses in a storm for our Queen Event, sharing our Christmas traditions, two of our members dressing in clown atire for the review of Water For Elephants…)

*The votes are based on the opinions of the 18 girls in the Bookies Book Club. Majority votes won.

Bookies Year In Review Coming Soon

It is that time of year again!  Today I will be tallying up the results of our 2009 reads for next weeks Bookies In Review book club meeting.  Each year I like to put together a booklet highlighting each book we read, where we met, and put in any pictures or funny happenings.  These books have become keepsakes to me and I have for every year since we began in 2001.


Last month, each member was given the sheet that askes them (using the books we read ass a book club):

  • what their favorite book club read was in 2009
  • What was their least favorite book club read in 2009
  • Best male character in a book club book
  • Best female character in a book club book
  • Best new author we were introduced to in 2009
  • Best author overall in 2009
  • Favorite place to do a review
  • Favorite Bookie memory of all time

Our Books for 2009 were:

Sarah’s Key by Tatiana De Rosnay

Such a pretty Fat by Jen Lancaster

Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah

The Book Thief By Marcus Zusak

Water For Elephants by Sara Gruen

Walking In Circles Before Lying Down by Merill Markoe

Wednesday Sisters by Meg Waite Clayton

Pope Joan by Donna Woolfork Cross

A Tree Grows In Brooklyn by Betty White

Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls

Home For The Holidays by Rebecca Kelly

The results will be in next Wednesday when I will feature a post of the Good, The Bad, and the moments not to be forgotten!

Home For The Holidays by Rebecca Kelly (Bookies Review)

A book I thought was going to just be sweet and “Christmasy” – turned out to have a deeper purpose for our book club.  ~ Sheila

Its a story of Christmas really.  Set in a small town called Acorn Hill, where three sisters own a place called Grace Chapel Inn.  When the sisters decide to take a break over the Christmas season and not take any guests so they can enjoy the holidays with each other, our story really begins…

First it starts when a group of tourists find themselves without a tour leader and the sisters decide they will help these people out by showing them around their town.  They travel through the towns beautiful Victorian homes seeing traditional pieces and collections (see pictures below). Then it continues when a snowstorm leaves the group stranded and Chapel Inn becomes a place of refuge for those who can not continue on their way.  The quiet Christmas the sisters were planning is soon evaporated into the cold winter air.

Reading this for book club, I found the book just incredibly sweet as seems to be the theme of Christmas reads.  I was a bit dissapointed that the plot did not seem to be stronger and I never developed a real feel for the characters – which is always a plus to be in a book.  I like to connect.  I walked into book club having not finished the read and a little anxious on how we were going to pull a good discussion out of this book.

I should never doubt the power of The Bookies. 🙂

Like a Christmas miracle I watched my beloved group of fellow Bookies grab on to this book and found ourselves in the middle of a fantastic discussion of Christmas traditions.  Just like what happened in the book, we found a common ground within the traditions and it was just enjoying to hear what things we hold on to year to year – either handed down from generations, or started anew with their own family.  I found myself taking notes rapidly, and ended with a deeper appreciation and understanding of this group.

When Angie (my long term partner in crime who has been with the Bookies with me since Aug. 2001) brought out pictures of things discussed in the book so we could understand the Victorian culture more, it was truly the icing on the cake.

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Jumping Jacks

Prayer Bench
Tramp Art Box

Folk Victorian Home
German Inglenook Bungalow

Overall, the Bookies rated this book an average to a slightly below average read.  The review however – was top notch and for going in with no idea what we were going to discuss…. I left with a really good feeling and over the next two days – finished the book so I too could share in all that it had to offer.

Author Rebecca Kelly wrote her first book at age thirteen and hasn’t stopped writing since.  When she’s not writing or being a mom, Rebecca volunteers weekly at an animal shelter, creates comfortable quilts that are distributed to children hospitalized for cance treatment and teaches creative writing to local public school students.  Rebecca was recently honored by the United States Air Force for her efforts over the last six years in sending books and other reading material every month to soldiers serving in Iraq.

What I found interesting about this series, Tales From Grace Chapel Inn (this is book #6) is that each book, while focused around Acorn Hill and the Inn, each book is written by a different author.  I think that is awesome as guests to the Inn would be of all different walks of life, and a unique voice to each book seems right.

The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls

An eye opening read!  A book not to sit on a shelf but to be passed on as it is meant to be read!  ~ Sheila

aaJeannette Walls grew up with parents whose ideals and stubborn nonconformity were both their curse and their salvation. Rex and Rose Mary Walls had four children. In the beginning, they lived like nomads, moving among Southwest desert towns, camping in the mountains. Rex was a charismatic, brilliant man who, when sober, captured his children’s imagination, teaching them physics, geology, and above all, how to embrace life fearlessly. Rose Mary, who painted and wrote and couldn’t stand the responsibility of providing for her family, called herself an “excitement addict.” Cooking a meal that would be consumed in fifteen minutes had no appeal when she could make a painting that might last forever.

Later, when the money ran out, or the romance of the wandering life faded, the Walls retreated to the dismal West Virginia mining town — and the family — Rex Walls had done everything he could to escape. He drank. He stole the grocery money and disappeared for days. As the dysfunction of the family escalated, Jeannette and her brother and sisters had to fend for themselves, supporting one another as they weathered their parents’ betrayals and, finally, found the resources and will to leave home.What is so astonishing about Jeannette Walls is not just that she had the guts and tenacity and intelligence to get out, but that she describes her parents with such deep affection and generosity. Hers is a story of triumph against all odds, but also a tender, moving tale of unconditional love in a family that despite its profound flaws gave her the fiery determination to carve out a successful life on her own terms.

My Thoughts:

The book opened with this sentence: “I was sitting in a taxi, wondering if I had overdressed for the evening, when I looked out the window and saw Mom rooting through a Dumpster.”

Yowsa.  I had to read it again.  It didnt take long to root myself into this read that was the vision of dysfunctional right from the start.  There are many times throughout the book that I wonder why didnt social services step in… why didnt anyone see this?  I wonder now as people who knew this family as this was happening dnt see Jeanette’s book now and wonder the same thing themselves.

The funny thing is that time and again, people did try to act… and Jeanette’s dad will pull up the family and move – and her mother (and I use the term loosely) just thought life was an adventure and didnt really focus to much on anything that had to do with her children.  Sorry- I am trying to stay even here but I really struggled with Jeanette’s mom.

In our Bookies Book Club discussion of this book this past week, we found the book to be so incredible that it had to be non fiction.  If the book were fictitious no one would find it believable -it would be too over the top.

  • Driving a piano through the house
  • cutting maggots off ham to eat
  • taking leftovers out of the schools garbage and eating it in the bathroom stalls so no one knew…

Jeanette Walls book is written well and Jeanette shares her life story in a matter of fact, occasionally humorous tone.  I dont think I could have made my way through it is she would have written it as bitter and angry – it would have been too heavy.

My book club rated this book as a high 4 rating out of 5.

About the Author:aa

One of four siblings, Jeannette Walls was born in Phoenix, Arizona in 1960. Her family lived in various southwestern towns before settling in Welch, West Virginia when she was ten. She moved to New York City at age 17 and graduated from Columbia University’s Barnard College with honors in 1984. She went on to become a reporter for New York magazine, Esquire and USA Today. She has appeared regularly on television, including the Today Show, CNN and Prime Time Live and is widely known as a former gossip columnist for MSNBC.com.

She currently lives in northern Virginia and is married to writer John Taylor. Her memoir, The Glass Castle (2005) was a New York Times bestseller with movie rights optioned by Paramount (but as of October 2009 there is no sign of the movie entering production). Her next book, Half Broke Horses: A True-Life Novel, was published in October 2009.


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I would rate this book PG

A Tree Grows In Brooklyn by Betty Smith

A girl and a tree… which one really has the deeper roots?  Which one really is the stronger?  ~ Sheila

a tree grows pixSynopsis

A moving coming-of-age story set in the 1900’s, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn follows the lives of 11-year-old Francie Nolan, her younger brother Neely, and their parents, Irish immigrants who have settled in the Williamsburg section of Brooklyn. Johnny Nolan is as loving and fanciful as they come, but he is also often drunk and out of work, unable to find his place in the land of opportunity. His wife Katie scrubs floors to put food on the table and clothes on her childrens’ backs, instilling in them the values of being practical and planning ahead.

When Johnny dies, leaving Katie pregnant, Francie, smart, pensive and hoping for something better, cannot believe that life can carry on as before. But with her own determination, and that of her mother behind her, Francie is able to move toward the future of her dreams, completing her education and heading oft to college, always carrying the beloved Brooklyn of her childhood in her heart.

My Thoughts:

A tree grows in Brooklyn was a pleasant read for a classic.  By saying that I mean that some of the classics we have read in the past have just been hard reads – hard to understand and hard to get into.  This books writing was smooth and I could follow the story easily.  The book is centered around Francie and her family in the back drop of World War One.  Told from the perspective of Francie, I quickly was engrossed in the absolute and utter level of poverty they were.

Food is a big theme in this book and while they had very little, Francie’s mom Katie could work wonders with it.  There is always stale bread and crushed pies, and bone marrow to spread on bread as a treat after the bone has been used in soups.  Meat was a rare treat.  This book reminded me a bit of The Book Thief as far as the poverty and making the best of what they have.

I enjoyed the theme of the book, yet found it for the most part non eventful.  The book goes page by page through Francie’s life, what she sees in her parents (her dad drinks too much and her mom works hard cleaning homes to make ends meet).  You see Francie is school and you learn her love for books and for learning.  The book carries you through Francie’s life and through this I see comparable to the tree that grows outside their home… the tree seems to represent Francie – strong and yet with struggles, continuing to grow.

A Tree Grows In Brooklyn was published in 1943. The book sold 300,000 copies in the first six weeks after it was published.  How amazing is that!  I find it astonishing that I have never read this book before.  This as well as most of the other greats were never required reading in our local schools.

This was our book club read for October.  Each October we pick a Classic and this was the pick for 2009.  We gathered at klondikemy home and we potlucked around the theme of the book.  I made minestrone and strata, which is an egg bake with sautéed onion and mushroom and peppers.  It was actually pretty good and  it was fun to cook for the group.  Some of the other book club members brought bread pudding, and desserts.  We even had Klondike Bars in honor of the Klondike dance that takes place in the book.

We found Katie’s sister Sissy  the most colorful character by far.  She was truly a woman who was 100% true to who she was and even today you have to find those people who do not wear masks, refreshing.  We discussed how Betty wrote this book to show people what Brooklyn was like in that day.

We also discussed the pride that people had then.  Although they were all levels of poor, they would not be the one to raise their hand when pie was offered in class.  Friends and neighbors were more – well friends and neighbors.  You helped one another get through and that is not always the case today.

Overall this book rating by the Bookies came up as an above average read and that would be our highest rating we have had yet on a classic.

My Amazon Review

This book is from my personal library

Wednesday Feature Bookclub: The Bookies

Today I am featuring my own book club, The Bookies of Brainerd, Minnesota.  I am doing this because as of current, I have interviewed everyone who has expressed an interest in this Wednesday Feature spot.  Many of you have emailed me or left comments on the Book Club feature spot telling me how much you enjoy it.  Thank you for that – it has been fun doing it.  However, if readers who are in book clubs (offline or on) do not let me know they would be interested in being reviewed for this spot, this will be the final Book Club feature until there are book clubs to interview.

Today – please welcome a book club I personally adore:  The Bookies!!!!!

The Brainerd Bookies
The Brainerd Bookies

How long have we been meeting?  Our first meeting was August of 2001, so 8+ years.  December of this year will be our 100th meeting.


How often do we meet?  We meet monthly on the 2nd Tuesday of each month.

Where do we meet?  It changes month to month.  Each member has a month to choose where we meet. W e have met at restaurants, homes, coffee shops.  We try to keep it fun.  Last month we were at a members home in her backyard and we grilled and had a bonfire.  I love that we do this stuff!


How many members do we have? Currently if everyone made it, we have 18.  We never all make it though so a usual meeting is around 12 to 14.


What age group do we represent?  That’s a tough one as I am not good at guessing ages…. I would say we have mid 20’s to maybe 65?  We are all women although it was never a criteria… just happened that way.  Some of the husbands we refer to as “behind the scenes Bookies” as they read many of the club books as well but do not attend the meetings.


What genres of books do we read? We are all over the board.  Women’s literature, fiction, the occasional non fiction, Classics, historical fiction, mysteries…


How do we choose what we will read?  Each month after our review we have a time where each member can nominate a book.  We limit it now to one book per member as it is easy to want to recommend 2 or 3 and the list of choices gets too long.  Most months we ask that the book is fairly new so we can find enough copies for all of us.  It also needs to be in paperback/over sized paperback format to keep our cost down.  Each member recommends the book they choose and a bit about the book.  When all nominations are in, we go around the room and we each get two votes.  Highest number of votes wins.  In the event of a tie, the Queen chooses – but that’s another story.  In October we always do a Classic, December we try to keep it Christmas related, February is a romance and July is free read month where we meet and potluck.


What was one of the best discussions and/or a favorite book we read as a group? Oh there are so many!  One that comes to mind is last years read of Philippa Gregory’s The Other Boleyn Girl.  I think that is the first time we almost all gave it our highest rating…. we loved it.  I asked everyone to trace back to some of their ancestors for this review and we had a lot of fun with that!

Another review, more recent was Meg Waite Clayton, The Wednesday Sisters.  While the book over all rated an average read – the discussion that came out of it was fantastic.


Bookies Queen Event 2009How do we keep things fun? We sometimes have potlucks at homes centered around the book theme.  Last September we read Wicked and everyone brought something to my house for the potluck that was green.  I had made green egg salad sandwiches (with food coloring), we had green almond bark, green soup, green chips and dips, apple martinis, and more.  In another book we celebrated a birthday of a character by actually having a birthday cake with her name on it.

Of course there is always the July Queen event where we all dress up in formal gowns and have speeches to be the Queen of Bookies.  The nominated Queen reigns for one year, receives the royal throne, crown and scepter.  She breaks all ties in voting and chooses where we meet in the event the member who  is suppose to choose is absent.


Have we done anything outside of our monthly meetings?  We have attended a few movies through the years of books we have read.  We once had a movie showing at my house of a book we had read.  Some of the girls this last December went to see the play Wicked in Minneapolis.  I wanted  to go so bad but I was in a wedding on that same day.  A few of us have also attended an authors tea.


What advice would we give to other book clubs? Don’t give up and keep it lite and fun.  We started 8 years ago with 3 members.  It took a while to grow.  We keep things light, we discuss the book, we theme the book…. in the future we have discussed having a favorite fiction character party.  Just do what you love…  read books and hang out with friends!  I have met some great people through our group.

If yo are in a book club and would like this feature spot, please email me at journeythroughbooks@gmail.com

I will then send you interview questions and request a picture or two of your group.  You send back the questions and I will give you a date as to which Wednesday you will be featured.  If you have a blog, I will link it your review.

Thanks everyone – that was fun!  🙂


Bookies Book Club Review of Pope Joan

Tonight was our September Book Club meeting.  It was Laura’s pick for location and she chose a Bookies recommended memepotluck camp fire at her home.  I love how each Book Club member gets a month to pick where to meet and the different places we get to try!

Tonight’s review was on Pope Joan by Donna Woolfolk Cross.  I had read this book prior to it being chosen for Book Club and I was anxious to see what the Bookies thought of it as well.  We had a good discussion about women who lived in the time of Pope Joan and how different it is from where we are today as women – it is almost hard to fathom a time when women were considered good for nothing other than making babies and keeping a home.  Yet, we know this is a part of our history.

“A woman’s long hair is the net wherein satan catches a man’s soul.” ~ Pope Joan page 11

Over all this book rated an above average read for us.  Most of the group enjoyed the historical value of the book and while a few counted the book as having a slow beginning, all agreed that once it got going it was hard to put down until the very end.

The weather had cleared from a rainy afternoon to a cool but not cold evening.  The review around the camp fire was a real treat!

My original review of this book is here

October is our classic month.  We will be reading A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty White.

Bookies Reviewed… The Wednesday Sisters by Meg Waite Clayton

Bookies recommended memeI got home from a great book club tonight.  14 of the Bookies made it to The St Mathias Bar and Grill for wonderful food (home apparently of the $2.50 Tuesday burger!).  We had a couple newbies tonight – Sharon and Gabriele and that is always fun.

The review was on The Wednesday Sisters by Meg Waite Clayton, a book that I had read a couple months ago and loved.  The discussion?  Fantastic – everyone was so talkative and we discussed how these female characters of the 60’s were so different from the women of today.  Newbie Gabriele shared that in 1967 she was a stewardess and at that time you actually could not gain weight over 5 pounds or you were not allowed to work.  She also said once you turned the ripe old age of 32, you no longer could work for the airlines!  WOW!

Overall the book rated an average read almost across the board.  Most everyone thought while the book was good, it was much like other books on womens friendships they had read.  A couple in the group found it did not grab them and rated it low.  I came in as the high vote, having loved it when I read it and foudn the characters fascinating as well as the time period.

The Bookies read  for September is Pope Joan by Donna Woolfolk Cross (YAY!!!) I am very excited to see what the girls think of this one.  In September we are meeting at Laura’s home and we are having a bonfire potluck.  Anyone have a great recipe to share with a historical fiction theme to it?

Pope Joan by Donna Woolfolk Cross

Every once in a while, we as readers are lucky enough to find that hidden treasure – the book we cantBest read 2009 wait to read in its entirety… yet we are saddened when it is done, as though we just said good-bye to a good friend. I have just experienced such a read. ~Sheila


p joanFor a thousand years men have denied her existence — Pope Joan, the woman who disguised herself as a man and rose to rule Christianity for two years. Now this compelling novel animates the legend with a portrait of an unforgettable woman who struggles against restrictions her soul cannot accept.

When her older brother dies in a Viking attack, the brilliant young Joan assumes his identity and enters a Benedictine monastery where, as Brother John Anglicus, she distinguishes herself as a scholar and healer. Eventually drawn to Rome, she soon becomes enmeshed in a dangerous mix of powerful passion and explosive politics that threatens her life even as it elevates her to the highest throne in the Western world.

My thoughts:  Endings are inevitable.  In life…as they are in books.  With each page of a great read you are excited to move on to the longed for conclusion…. yet at the end, you may sit there as I am now, almost feeling a loss.  This book was such a find for me and I absolutely loved the historical value in this read.  Joan was strong and determined from the moment she was born – until the moment she died.  I found myself trying to find moments in my day when I could pick up this book and read even if it was only for a minute or two.  Donna Woolfolk Cross writes with a brilliant stroke where at times I even laughed out loud at the witness of her words.  donna2006

Donna Woolfolk Cross graduated cum laude, Phi Beta Kappa, from the University of Pennsylvania in 1969 with a B.A. in English.  She moved to London, England, after graduation, and worked as an editorial assistant for a small publishing house on Fleet Street, W.H. Allen and Company.  Upon her return to the United States, Cross worked at Young and Rubicam, a Madison Avenue advertising firm, before going on to graduate school at UCLA where she earned a master’s degree in Literature and Writing in 1972.

She is the coauthor of Speaking of Words and Daddy’s Little Girl.  The product of seven years of research and writing, Pope Joan is her first novel.  She is now at work on a new novel set in 17th century France.

More on Donna Woolfolk Cross here in my author interview

Was there a Pope Joan?

I for one hope that Joan really did live on this earth.  A woman ahead of her time – I applaud her strength and conviction.  Joan, fictitious or not, lived a life that few could live up to even today.

Thank you Donna for a read that I can honestly chalk up there with one of the best books I have read this year.  I will treasure this book and our conversations, forever.


“Partout ou vous voyez une legende, vous pouvez etre sur, en allant au fond des choses, que vous trouverez une histoire.”

“Whenever you see a legend, you can be sure, if you go to the very bottom of things, that you will find history.”

~Vallet de Viriville

Go here to my earlier post where you have a chance to win a sign and inscribed copy of Pope Joan from Donna Woolfolk Cross.

Information to the movie Pope Joan due out this Fall of 2009!

More about the novel

Enchanted by Josephine’s post and author interview for Pope Joan

redcarpetMy Amazon Review

*This book was purchased locally at our very own BookWorld in Brainerd Minnesota

I rate Pope Joan PG13 for some mild nudity and violence