Songs For The Missing by Stewart O’nan

An enthralling portrait of one family in the aftermath of a daughter’s disappearance

“It was the summer of her Chevette, of J.P. and letting her hair grow.” It was also the summer when, without warning, popular high school student Kim Larsen disappeared from her small Midwestern town. Her loving parents, her introverted sister, her friends and boyfriend, must now do everything they can to find her. As desperate search parties give way to pleading television appearances, and private investigations yield to personal revelations, we see one town’s intimate struggle to maintain hope, and finally, to live with the unknown.

This book has kind of a cool story to go with it…. while searching on Barnes and Noble (yes, the Mother Ship) I stumbled across a book group they call First Look. First Look lets people from all around the world request to receive an advanced copy of a book that an author wants reviewed and discussed before the release date. Fun? I know!!!

I read about the book that was coming up and it sounded interesting so in January of this year I requested a copy. I heard nothing on it but in May, I received a package from Barnes and Noble with the advanced copy and a letter from the author. S W E E T !!!

The job of the selected readers is to read the book in sections and then discuss it on line through a private discuss only open to those who were given the book. I was so excited to be holding this beautiful book that on the back says a publication date of November 2008. I feel like I am in a secret club and like I own a secret decoder ring!

The book is about Kim, an 18 year old who is out one afternoon with her friends and while on her way to work that day, disappears. The author is well written and his focus is mainly on the ones that were left behind – a mother who becomes an advocate for her missing daughter as everything else falls to the way side, a father – who searches the country side with volunteers at first and then alone – a sister who has always played second fiddle anyway and now secludes herself even deeper – the boyfriend who carries his own guilt – the girlfriends who go between trying to move on and being overrun by memories…

I like the layout of the book as each chapter is told froma different persons perspective. However at the end the book feels rushed to close like the author has become bored with the story. The “hints” early on in the book that give you the impression that the friends know something about Kim’s dissapearance is a false lead, and **Spoiler Alert when Kim finally is found it never explains where or the circumstances and it all turns out to be random.

I belive the best part of reading this book – was being chosen to read it and review it with others from all over. I will watch the site for future books but as for this one – I have to rate it 2.9 (was holding a strong 4 in the begining but the ending really dissapointed me).

The Magician’s Nephew by C.S. Lewis

With the newly released Prince Caspian movie and my appreciation for all things Narnia – I found myself wondering why I, the reader that I claim to be, had not read any of the books in this series yet.  This very thought said out loud, led to the series showing up on my desk within hours of my uttering the desire to read them.  (YAY!)

So- over the holiday weekend I curled up with my cup of tea, my favorite blanket and the first book in this series, The Magicians Nephew (interestingly enough as I thought for sure book one would be The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe).

Right away I noticed with a tinge of dissapointment that C.S. is writing to children and in a very grandfatherish tone.  Things are written such as, “and wasn’t that a wonderful surprise boys and girls?”  Discouraged, even though I have nothing against reading a children’s book (I have read every Harry Potter book through twice) I wanted a bit more to the book.  I read on and something happened….

I found it quite interesting to find similarities to this book and to J.K. Rowlings books on Harry Potter.  For one thing – characters in many cases have similar names, such as in this book Digory the little boy, is also the name of a boy in the Potter books.  The magic and going to other worlds is also similar.  I have not researched this yet, but I had read an article in Christianity today a while ago that talked of some of J.K.’s influences.  I remember one was Tolkien as she loved The Lord of The Rings.

The biblical references in this book are profound and I always find myself amazed at C.S. Lewis’s style of writing for the times.  He did not have the influence of tv shows and the movie technology there is today to create such vidid and profound characters all at the same time.  The meaning in his books are so great and the fact that he aimed for his audience to be children is also wonderful because the books are such learning tools while at the same time fun and interesting.  (I think as I continued reading I may have become younger…)

Digory is tempted to take the apple for himself

Uncle Andrew is unable to understand Aslan and only hears roars

In this book there is the creation story in Narnia and how Aslan created all

and so much more…..

A couple things I want to point out that I enjoyed were that this first book explains how the lamp post came to Narnia as well as how the wardrobe was created and why it was magical….

If you haven’t read this book – I recommend it!

Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

This book, Eat Pray Love arrived on my door step as an error on a book swap I was doing.  Reading the back of the book I had decided that I did not want to read this book….  a book written as the author travels through Italy, India, and Indonesia in search of fullfillment….  no thank you….

Then as it sat on my desk top I decided I was interested enough in the traveling side of the book to take a peak….  and so I did.

I really enjoyed the first part of the book on eating and Italy.  As Elizabeth travels through Italy I love the picture she paints of the beauty of the area, you can almost taste the incredible foods she encounters and her experiences are wonderful….

The prayer section in India was…. interesting.  This is a “procede with caution” book.  While I found some of her writing in this section to be beautiful (the act of praying in the New Year as it came across the skies like a large heavy bag carrying the unknown – births and deaths, great happiness, and sorrow…) she experienced an Indian Guru who acted as her swami and at that point – the culture was interesting, but she never seemed to quite get the Christianity part down and throughout the book continues to search for self fullfillment.

The final section was on love and at this point she is in Indonesia where she spends time with a medicine man who also had odd beliefs yet she continues her learning of deep prayer.

So – I was not even sure I was going to review this book because of the turns it takes.  It is about 80% great – she has an amazing sence of humor (I laughed out loud at a couple of her thoughts like when the medicine man forgets who she is and calls her Sharon…) and her writing at times made me really stop and think…

…”One should search for God as a man who’s head is on fire searches for water…”

I enjoyed reading about how other cultures see God.  Reading of some of their customs was really interesting and I did learn a few cultural things.  However – I again caution the reader who chooses to read this book to do so lightly and realize that the author has no strong faith base and her searching is taking her all over the board.

Again – about 80% interesting and educational – about 20% I skimmed and found totally off the mark.

Just Walk Across The Room by Bill Hybels

Bill Hybels is an amazing speaker and author.  Without mixing words, Bill Hybels lays it on the line that evangelism – is everyones duty.  We are all to be like Jesus and approach people – build disciples for HIm… and Bill gives us a few tools as to how.

I enjoyed reading about Bill’s approach and love how the first step is always just talking, getting to know one another – because hey, I can do that!  Building relationships and doing it consistently is the theme of this well written book.

We used this book as a guide for our 401 class and it was a great discussion book.  Highly recommend this read.  Bill has a few stories and activities that I would like to implement in my own life.

The Next Thing On My List

This book was a fun read. I found this as a book club selection and it was everything I had hoped for. The storyline is that of June, who befriends a woman who needs a ride home from a meeting. While driving, June is in a car accident that kills her passenger, Marrissa.

June finds a list that Marissa had of 20 things she wanted to do before she turned 25. June, in her guilt, decides to go out and complete the list. The book is sweet and funny and at times enough to make you cry. It was a great read following June through such tasks as riding in a helicopter, boogie boarding, and changing someones life. In the end, June gets much more out of the list then she would have every dreamed.

The book inspired me to make a list of my own. Great read.

The Boleyn Inheritance

Another read by Phillippa Gregory. This book was a bit harder to get into at the start. Gregory writes the book from three women’s point of view: Jane Boleyn, Katherine Howard, and Anne Cleys. Each chapter is from one of these women’s perspective. At first I found that difficult to follow, once I picked upt he rythym of it – I found it brilliant.

Jane, of course, in the original Anne’s sister in law who helped with the evidence to have Anne as well as her husband killed in the Other Boleyn Girl. Katherine is a cousin to the original Ann and 14 years old. She is just as spunky as her cousin and looking out for #1… in this case…. herself. Anne Cleys is the Queen (#4) and from Spain with little English. Katherine, will eventually become the 5th Queen to Henry VIII.

I loved the history again. I had no idea and enjoyed reading about the time period and how much Henry has changed since his early days as King. At this point I would say he is quite mad and I don’t mean angry. Another excellent read.

The Other Boleyn Girl – MOVIE REVIEW

One of the things the Bookies like to do is see the movie of a book that we have read.  This puts a little extra zip into our group when we get to the occasional outing. 

On Thursday five of us were able to go and check out  The Other Boleyn Girl movie at Movies 10.  I was really excited to see what they had done with the movie as the book was so incredible. 

Seeing this movie I was somewhat dissapointed.  Many key facts were left out – and I realize when you read a 735 page book, the movie is not going to be able to put all details in… but definate holes were left in the movie version.  My friend Joelle went with us to the movie and having not read the book, she had a lot of questions for me as the movie just didn’t put things together well.

One thing I felt held true was at the end when Anne is found guilty and they take her to her death.  Her speak is right on as recorded in history, and I found this part extremely real as she realized that no one would save her this time and she really was going to die. 

Overall – I found the movie to be of average rating.  Nothing exceptional and I do not care to see it again.  If I had not read the book prior to seeing the movie, I don’t think I would be as fascinated with the whole times of Henry the VIII…  (another movie from a book did just as poorly a couple years ago was Memoirs of A Geisha). 

In my opinion – read the book, it is filled with facts and interestingly real characters. 

Skip the movie.

So You Want To Start A Book Club

I get that a lot.  People seem to be in awe of the fact that not only have I been in this book club for 7  13 years… but the fact that it continues to grow and remain interesting.  I get a lot of questions on what we read, how do we pick, how do we handle poor picks, etc….  so here it is.

Our book club The Bookies, was started in 2001 with three people. 

1.  Why start a book club?  Well, for me – I love to read and love to talk books.  But the real reason our book club started was I thought it was sad that I had worked with some of these women for 10 + years and hardly knew anything about them.  This group was set up as a way to get to know people outside the walls of where we worked.

2.  How did you choose the first book and then continue choosing?  The first book was Dance Upon the Air by Nora Roberts.  I selected it and then posted the information by the time clock telling people who were interested to read the book and then meet me at Boardwalk Pizza on the specified date.  After that first choice (which was a fantastic read!) we brought suggestions to the group and then we voted and read the one with the most votes.

3.  How did the group grow?  Again – word of mouth.  The three of us met the first two months.  Then a couple more joined us from work…. then I brought a friend and so on….  sometimes people left after a while, but for the most part they all stayed.  We currently have 14 of us.

4.  What do you do when the book picked is really awful?  Well, for one, our rule is if you ever find a book that you do not wish to read for any reason, we suggest you read one of the other books from the nominations.  It rarely happens, but on occasion a book may not fit for someone… I have even passed on a few of our choices through the years.  And that’s ok.    The great thing is, some books have nothing wrong with them other than the fact that they are just badly written or way too intense.  The funny thing is, that some of these books make for the best reviews!  Wuthering Heights makes a great example.  Awful read…..  boring, deep, painful… but we had the most fun analyzing the main characters (pretty sure Kathryn was bi polar)… ; )

5.  What keeps the group interesting?  I try to keep things moving and fun.  In one month, we all wrote reviews of the book we had read like they do on the back of book covers… like, “Riveting…. I couldn’t out it down!”  It was fun to see what people came up with.  Another month we read about the 1500’s so we all researched our ancestors and discussed how far back we could go.  Sometimes we do potlucks at each others homes themes around the book.  When we read the book Wicked, we all had to bring an item that was green… we had green egg salad sandwiches, dips, desserts, etc…. 

6.  Do you have any special reads or events?  Yup.  July is our free read month and we potluck at Kiwanis park.  We also in July nominate a Queen and dress up in formal wear and we have our annual book sale too.  In October we have our classic read and try to read a classic each year for that month.  At Christmas we exchange gifts. 

8.  How do you choose where to meet?    We now take turns and if it is your turn you get to pick out of our options of restaurants or homes offered by members. 

9.  Is it harder to run the group now that it so big?  Not really harder, but different.  The benefits to a larger group is the diverse responses to the book.  It makes for great discussion and we are introduced to more authors because different people nominate different book styles. 

10.  What advice would you give to someone wanting to start a book club?  Absolutely do it!  Grab a starter friend or two or do what I did, post the group info somewhere and hope that someone shows up!  If you love to read, you will find others….  keep it lite, keep it fun….  and keep the great books coming!

 

The Year Of Fog by Michelle Richmond

This was our book club book for our May read.  This is one of the top ten books that book clubs are currently reading and I was excited to see it picked as I was already reading it.

They compare this author to Jodi Picoult but I don’t think so.  While Michelle started out strong in this book – the book quickly deteriorates to a long 300+ pages of trying to find the lost child (Emma) and flash backs to earlier days and a lot of photography facts and metaphores.

I found myself racing through the book just to get to the end.  I wanted to know if they found Emma alive, dead… or never?

Overall I have to wonder if after reading such a well written book as The Other Boleyn Girl, perhaps this book was just not strong enough to follow so closely.  I will be very interested next month to hear what the other girls in our Bookies Group have to say on this.

I would rate this a slightly below average book.

The Other Boleyn Girl by Phillipa Gregory

With three weeks to read this 735 page book as nominated by my book club, we joked about narrowing down the task of reading this book:  21 pages per day, .8 pages per hour….

The truth is … once I sat down and started reading, I could hardly put the book down.  The draw for me to this book was the historical signifigance.  yes, it is a fiction book, but the basic outline was actual as I discovered by my research on the Boleyn’s.

The Other Boleyn Girl is an excellent portrayal of one of the most fascinating eras in English history, the turbulent reign of Henry VIII. Under Henry’s direction, the English Court changes course, breaking from the Roman Church in order to dissolve Henry’s marriage to Katherine of Aragon, who cannot provide a living heir to the throne.

The Boleyn’s as well as the other influential names of the times, fawn over the King,  fightling for titles and status.

When Henry first notices Mary Boleyn, Anne’s sister,  he is attracted to her beauty and her youthful manner. Mary, already married, is acceptable for a tryst with the King.  (Up until this book, I don’t belive I had ever heard of Mary Boleyn – which is exactly the point of this book and why the book is narrated from Mary’s view point.

Mary is the primary focus of the novel, even when replaced in the King’s affections by Anne.  First hand we see as Mary steps aside for Anne to take the family name onward and upward or so it is hoped… With the help of Mary and the brother George, we read on to see how one family manipulates themselves for what they believe is the greater good no matter what the cost.

Philippa Gregory’s characters are enchanting.  I found them believable and was impressed when doing research that this story was not too far from the truth.  Gregory seems to take the facts as we know them and magnificantly fills in the holes with colorful brilliant characters that held my attention through all 735 pages.

I enjoyed this book very much.