So You Want To Start A Book Club

I get that a lot.  People seem to be in awe of the fact that not only have I been in this book club for 7  13 years… but the fact that it continues to grow and remain interesting.  I get a lot of questions on what we read, how do we pick, how do we handle poor picks, etc….  so here it is.

Our book club The Bookies, was started in 2001 with three people. 

1.  Why start a book club?  Well, for me – I love to read and love to talk books.  But the real reason our book club started was I thought it was sad that I had worked with some of these women for 10 + years and hardly knew anything about them.  This group was set up as a way to get to know people outside the walls of where we worked.

2.  How did you choose the first book and then continue choosing?  The first book was Dance Upon the Air by Nora Roberts.  I selected it and then posted the information by the time clock telling people who were interested to read the book and then meet me at Boardwalk Pizza on the specified date.  After that first choice (which was a fantastic read!) we brought suggestions to the group and then we voted and read the one with the most votes.

3.  How did the group grow?  Again – word of mouth.  The three of us met the first two months.  Then a couple more joined us from work…. then I brought a friend and so on….  sometimes people left after a while, but for the most part they all stayed.  We currently have 14 of us.

4.  What do you do when the book picked is really awful?  Well, for one, our rule is if you ever find a book that you do not wish to read for any reason, we suggest you read one of the other books from the nominations.  It rarely happens, but on occasion a book may not fit for someone… I have even passed on a few of our choices through the years.  And that’s ok.    The great thing is, some books have nothing wrong with them other than the fact that they are just badly written or way too intense.  The funny thing is, that some of these books make for the best reviews!  Wuthering Heights makes a great example.  Awful read…..  boring, deep, painful… but we had the most fun analyzing the main characters (pretty sure Kathryn was bi polar)… ; )

5.  What keeps the group interesting?  I try to keep things moving and fun.  In one month, we all wrote reviews of the book we had read like they do on the back of book covers… like, “Riveting…. I couldn’t out it down!”  It was fun to see what people came up with.  Another month we read about the 1500’s so we all researched our ancestors and discussed how far back we could go.  Sometimes we do potlucks at each others homes themes around the book.  When we read the book Wicked, we all had to bring an item that was green… we had green egg salad sandwiches, dips, desserts, etc…. 

6.  Do you have any special reads or events?  Yup.  July is our free read month and we potluck at Kiwanis park.  We also in July nominate a Queen and dress up in formal wear and we have our annual book sale too.  In October we have our classic read and try to read a classic each year for that month.  At Christmas we exchange gifts. 

8.  How do you choose where to meet?    We now take turns and if it is your turn you get to pick out of our options of restaurants or homes offered by members. 

9.  Is it harder to run the group now that it so big?  Not really harder, but different.  The benefits to a larger group is the diverse responses to the book.  It makes for great discussion and we are introduced to more authors because different people nominate different book styles. 

10.  What advice would you give to someone wanting to start a book club?  Absolutely do it!  Grab a starter friend or two or do what I did, post the group info somewhere and hope that someone shows up!  If you love to read, you will find others….  keep it lite, keep it fun….  and keep the great books coming!

 

The Year Of Fog by Michelle Richmond

This was our book club book for our May read.  This is one of the top ten books that book clubs are currently reading and I was excited to see it picked as I was already reading it.

They compare this author to Jodi Picoult but I don’t think so.  While Michelle started out strong in this book – the book quickly deteriorates to a long 300+ pages of trying to find the lost child (Emma) and flash backs to earlier days and a lot of photography facts and metaphores.

I found myself racing through the book just to get to the end.  I wanted to know if they found Emma alive, dead… or never?

Overall I have to wonder if after reading such a well written book as The Other Boleyn Girl, perhaps this book was just not strong enough to follow so closely.  I will be very interested next month to hear what the other girls in our Bookies Group have to say on this.

I would rate this a slightly below average book.

The Other Boleyn Girl by Phillipa Gregory

With three weeks to read this 735 page book as nominated by my book club, we joked about narrowing down the task of reading this book:  21 pages per day, .8 pages per hour….

The truth is … once I sat down and started reading, I could hardly put the book down.  The draw for me to this book was the historical signifigance.  yes, it is a fiction book, but the basic outline was actual as I discovered by my research on the Boleyn’s.

The Other Boleyn Girl is an excellent portrayal of one of the most fascinating eras in English history, the turbulent reign of Henry VIII. Under Henry’s direction, the English Court changes course, breaking from the Roman Church in order to dissolve Henry’s marriage to Katherine of Aragon, who cannot provide a living heir to the throne.

The Boleyn’s as well as the other influential names of the times, fawn over the King,  fightling for titles and status.

When Henry first notices Mary Boleyn, Anne’s sister,  he is attracted to her beauty and her youthful manner. Mary, already married, is acceptable for a tryst with the King.  (Up until this book, I don’t belive I had ever heard of Mary Boleyn – which is exactly the point of this book and why the book is narrated from Mary’s view point.

Mary is the primary focus of the novel, even when replaced in the King’s affections by Anne.  First hand we see as Mary steps aside for Anne to take the family name onward and upward or so it is hoped… With the help of Mary and the brother George, we read on to see how one family manipulates themselves for what they believe is the greater good no matter what the cost.

Philippa Gregory’s characters are enchanting.  I found them believable and was impressed when doing research that this story was not too far from the truth.  Gregory seems to take the facts as we know them and magnificantly fills in the holes with colorful brilliant characters that held my attention through all 735 pages.

I enjoyed this book very much.

Book Sale Recap

Have to share, it was incredible!  They had so many books this year they did not even put them in alphabetical order by author… actually made it more challenging but I think I was up to it.

Oh the books – the beautiful books…. beautiful hard cover books for 50 cents – that’s right – 50 cents!  I cruised through the whole thing quickly scanning titles and then went in for a second lap – more detailed this time as I dug in boxes under the tables, read jacket covers and breathed in that great book scent.  Wall to wall people and wall to wall books…. 

I was in line to check out when I discovered I had completely missed the oversize paperback section and spent another 20 minutes there. 

When I finally checked out, an hour and a half after I had stepped in – I had 23 books!  $11.50!  The price I would be lucky to get for our hard cover book!  What a rush!!!

Stay tune this fall when the Library sale hits again!

UN Christian by Dave Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons

dsc06894.jpgFor the past few months I have been digging into this book slowly processing and re reading and  telling you now – I think I have struck gold.

Christians are supposed to represent Christ to the world. But according to the latest report card, something has gone terribly wrong. Using descriptions like “hypocritical,” “insensitive,” and “judgmental,” young Americans share an impression of Christians that’s nothing short of . . . unChristian.

Groundbreaking research into the perceptions of sixteen- to twenty-nine-year-olds reveals that Christians have taken several giant steps backward in one of their most important assignments. The surprising details of the study, commissioned by Fermi Project and conducted by The Barna Group, are presented with uncompromising honesty in UNChristian.

With great input by Rick Warren, Gary Haugen,  Mark Batterson, Andy Stanley, Jim Wallis, Sarah Cunningham, Chuck Colson, Louis Giglio, Andy Crouch, Jim White, Brian McLaren, Margaret Feinberg and many more – this is a hard to put down, yet a must read for anyone trying to understand what we face in trying to reach the 16 to 29 generation.

What dreams may come…

You would think with my never ending stack of books at home to be read, and the not as big but just as popular pile of books to read again…. I would be satisfied. Not to mention, my current books that I am reading: The Other Boleyn Girl, UNChristian, and Nothing To Fear… but alas, that is not the case…

I still see books, hear about books and want to read books…. SO as we end March 2008, here is my current wish list:

The Next Thing On My List by Jill Smolinski

Three Cups Of Tea by Greg Mortinson, and David Oliver Relin

Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

I am sure there is more… but that is what is in my head at this moment….

A Letter…

Dear Barnes and Noble,

It is with a heavy heart that I inform you that I am breaking up with you.  After much consideration and making of mental pro/con lists – I feel it is best if we take this no further and end our walk together here.

Recently I have been seeing other book stores.  I have been spending what I consider to be quality time in stores within a ten mile radious of my home.  With the positive upgrades to our two local stores as well as my ever increasing enjoyment of Christianbooks.com and Amazon, I truly feel our time has passed.

I’ll remember the good times – your shelves and shelves of books, the great atmosphere, and of course, that “new book” smell.

I find it only fair to tell you that I will be requesting half of all your books in our divorce settlement.

Best of wishes,

Sheila

Brainerd Library Book Sale

Ok… I almost hate to share this…. but the Bookie in me (my definition of a book junkie as well as the name of my book club) has to put the word out on this little known blog so I don’t feel selfish.  : )

The Brainerd Library book sale is Friday March 28th and 29th at 9 am each morning.  There I said it. 

For those of you who have never experienced this sale that takes place every Spring and Fall – here are a few guidelines from a book sale pro….

  1. Ladies, leave your purse in the car or at home.  Grab cash or check and stick it in your pocket.  You are not going to want to be lugging anything around while you dig through piles of books by your favorite authors and favorite topics.
  2. Stretch.  You may laugh… but not only are there stacks and stacks of books lined up on long tables…. but there are more books under the tables in boxes all categorized and ready to hit the tables if they have a chance.  It has not been beyond me to crawl under these tables and plow through the boxes.
  3. Patience.  My past experience has been a packed area in the room to the right of the library and by packed I mean wall to wall people all doing the same thing you are doing.  (For that reason, you really can’t get upset with them).

That’s about it.  Enjoy!  Oh – and for those of you who have books to donate, they are still accepting books and if you feel the need to feed my habit and others like me…

Bless you.

Hunger Pains by Cynthia Moe

dsc06898.jpgI recently heard about this book from a friend while traveling back from a conference. She was telling me about this book that was written by a co worker of hers who works in the Brainerd Police Department, Cynthia Moe.

I was immediately intrigued by the topic and the fact that this was a woman from my own home town. I went to Bethany Book Store and found it!

The book is well written and I like that Cynthia breaks down a 40 day fast by journaling her thoughts day to day. For me, I enjoyed the layed back truthful way the book is written. Cynthia gives it all – the moments that are great, and the moments you question what you are doing. She has questions at the end of each chapter and scripture to show you Biblically what she is talking about.

Highly enjoyable book!

What’s So Amazing About Grace by Philip Yancey

dsc06909.jpgThis is my third time through this book and each time I pull out something different. Philip is an excellent writer who tells it like it is.

What’s So Amazing About Grace really makes me look at who I am in God – and who I am as a person. Grace goes far beyond my normal human response and reading how Philip puts it into perspective stretches me. Grace is shocking, even scandalous – but always Biblical.

This is a book that will always be in my personal library. For the record, you are safe to go with anything that Philip Yancey has written. (Rumors of Another World, Reaching for the Invisible God, The Jesus I never knew, Where is God when it Hurts, Disappointed with God) I believe I have read them all….