Word Shakers On Line Book Club: Review Of The Help by Katherine Stockett

word shakersThis is the first book review of the new Word Shakers on line book club.  I am so excited we were able to start with such a wonderful read.

The Help by Kathryn Stockett

The Help

Here are the discussion question as well as comments made from different members of this group.


1. Who was your favorite character? Why?

Across the board, all participating members in this discussion agreed that the favorite was Aibileen.  Lisa from Lit and Life also thought maybe Skeeter as well as Skeeter was willing to stand up for herself no matter what the cost.


2. What do you think motivated Hilly? On the one hand she is terribly cruel to Aibileen and her own help, as well as to Skeeter once she realizes that she can’t control her. Yet she’s a wonderful mother. Do you think that one can be a good mother but, at the same time, a deeply flawed person?

Laurel from Laurel Rain Snow Reflections says that while Hilly was a good mom, her prejudices color her judgment. As Lisa states, Hilly is a product of her own upbringing.


3. Like Hilly, Skeeter’s mother is a prime example of someone deeply flawed yet somewhat sympathetic. She seems to care for Skeeter–and she also seems to have very real feelings for Constantine. Yet the ultimatum she gives to Constantine is untenable; and most of her interaction with Skeeter is critical. Do you think Skeeter’s mother is a sympathetic or unsympathetic character? Why?

Esme from Chocolates and Croissants describes Skeeter’s mom as sympathetic or possibly pathetic.  She wants what she feels is best for her daughter and in her eyes that is marriage and a good solid one at that.


4. How much of a person’s character would you say is shaped by the times in which they live?

Julie of My Own Little Corner Of The World says that the times in which a person lives has a lot to do with their character.  Look at todays teeenagers, theyw ould not have survived these times.  Kids were more respectful and obedient of their parents.  Laurel adds that it takes an exceptional person to move out of the mold of the world.

5. Did it bother you that Skeeter is willing to overlook so many of Stuart’s faults so that she can get married, and that it’s not until he literally gets up and walks away that the engagement falls apart?

Sheila (me) says yes, I dislike it when a woman undersetimates her worth to any man.  I was thankful that in the end Skeeter held true to who she was.  I think even Skeeter’s mom in the end started to see that her daughter really could take care of herself.

6. Do you believe that Minny was justified in her distrust of white people?

All agreed that due to the experiences that Minny had with white people, she had no reason to trust them.


7. Do you think that had Aibileen stayed working for Miss Elizabeth, that Mae Mobley would have grown up to be racist like her mother? Do you think racism is inherent, or taught?

Taught!  Sheila (me) thinks that Aibileen made a good effort to teach Mae Mobley about seeing people for who they are not for the color of their skin.  Hopefully, we as the readers are left to believe that this will stick with Mae Mobley through the years.


8. From the perspective of a twenty-first century reader, the hairshellac system that Skeeter undergoes seems ludicrous. Yet women still alter their looks in rather peculiar ways as the definition of “beauty” changes with the times. Looking back on your past, what’s the most ridiculous beauty regimen you ever underwent?

Julie:  If I had to pick one I would say the tube of toohtpaste used to get rid of pimples as a teenager

Esme:  For me, it was just getting the routine down as a teen – from showering to make up, etc…

Laurel:  Sleeping with my head in those giant rollers!

Lisa:  Well, it used to be perms and now it is straightening my hair on a daily basis

Sheila:  Had to be the spiral perms that were all teh rage.  It would take 4 hours in the salon to wrap my hair in those long twisty rods.


9. The author manages to paint Aibileen with a quiet grace and an aura of wisdom about her. How do you think she does this?

Julie:  Aibileen’s character shows this in how she treats Mae Mobley…. patiently teaching.

Sheila:  Maybe because she has helped raise 17 children she has learned to see what these children are not gettingfor their parents by being torn down so she has trained herself to build them up.

10. Do you think there are still vestiges of racism in relationships where people of color work for people who are white? Have you heard stories of parents who put away their valuable jewelry before their nanny comes? Paradoxically, they trust the person to look after their child but not their diamond rings?

Esme:  Racism does still exist today, whether it is directed at a person of color, religion, or sexual beliefs.  My favorite is when you are in a group and someone says something about a group they find out you are part of and then says, “Oh but not you…”  The nanny example is great – they are good enough to be trusted with the child, but not the diamonds.


11. What did you think about Minny’s pie for Miss Hilly? Would you have gone as far as Minny did for revenge?

Sheila:  Oh!  I had to read that twice to make sure I got that right….  LOL.  I cant imagine myself going that far, but Minny’s character?  Absolutely!

Laurel:  Probably not but I did get a chuckle out of it.

Lisa:  Yuck!  I was more than grossed out by the pie thing!  Nope, I would not do such a thing.

Julie:  Loved it!  I don’t know if I would have been brave enough to do such a thing.  It was very creative and I loves the :gotcha” feel to it.  It made the book so much more effective for me.

12.  Would you recommend this book to a friend?

Julie:  I would – yes!  It is the best book I have read in 2009 so far.  I couldn’t put it down!

Esme: Definitely-this is a beautiful story about love, relationships, trust and life in the South in the early 60’s.  While I was not old enough during that time to remember the problems nor did I live in the South I think the book has given an accurate description of how life was for blacks and whites.  It describes the frustration of blacks, due to segregation, their hope they must have had in MLK and Kennedy and their aspiration for their children.  For the women of the novel, their roles were very defined.  To be a good mother and wife.  You have women in the book that supposedly had a higher education yet they were content not to graduate and keep a nice home.  Their beliefs in segregation were those that were defined for them by their society.  They were quick to adopt these beliefs and not question them.

Lisa:  I have already recommended this book to a lot of people.  I think it is a wonderful look at a time and place.

Laurel:  Yes!  It was a book that spotlighted a time that I remember well, I did not (nor do I now) live in the South, I was part of the civil rights movement in the 60’s.

Sheila:  Oh yeah!  I have never read anything like this before and I really enjoyed it.  This book is a keeper for me and I highly recommend it!


You can see members of the Word Shakers On Line Book Clubs Personal reviews on this book here:

Lit and Life

Laurel Raine Snow Reflections

Chocolate and Croissants

My Own Little Corner Of The World

One Persons Journey Through A World of Books


Watch for the next Word Shakers book choice to be posted soon!  All are welcome to join!  See how here!

Have you read The Help?  We would love for you to join in this discussion.  What are your thoughts on any of the questions above?

The Help by Kathryn Stockett

If you could only read one more book for the rest of the year – this is the book to read.  ~  Sheila


The HelpSynopsis

Three ordinary women are about to take one extraordinary step.

Twenty-two-year-old Skeeter has just returned home after graduating from Ole Miss. She may have a degree, but it is 1962, Mississippi, and her mother will not be happy till Skeeter has a ring on her finger. Skeeter would normally find solace with her beloved maid Constantine, the woman who raised her, but Constantine has disappeared and no one will tell Skeeter where she has gone.

Aibileen is a black maid, a wise, regal woman raising her seventeenth white child. Something has shifted inside her after the loss of her own son, who died while his bosses looked the other way. She is devoted to the little girl she looks after, though she knows both their hearts may be broken.

Minny, Aibileen’s best friend, is short, fat, and perhaps the sassiest woman in Mississippi. She can cook like nobody’s business, but she can’t mind her tongue, so she’s lost yet another job. Minny finally finds a position working for someone too new to town to know her reputation. But her new boss has secrets of her own.

Seemingly as different from one another as can be, these women will nonetheless come together for a clandestine project that will put them all at risk. And why? Because they are suffocating within the lines that define their town and their times. And sometimes lines are made to be crossed.


My Thoughts:

I love a book that makes you feel, and that is exactly what I found in the pages of  The Help by Kathryn Stockett.  The book spoke out with the voices of the maids, “the help”, of Jackson Mississippi.  It is 1962 and I quickly found myself enjoying those voices as Aibileen speaks in words such as “Law, that child’s legs so spindly she done  look like she grow them last week.

From the white folk who either were upper class, or liked to pretend they were, to the maids filled with opinions that some like Aibileen keep to themselves and others like Minny(who by description is anything but Minny) who cant help but speak their mind and wind up being fired time and again.  Or Skeeter, a person who sees things that others do not… sees clearly right from wrong.  These characters are colorful, delightful, and I could easily picture the white women playing bridge as Aibileen waits on them hearing their conversations.

And this book did make me feel.  I felt anger over how some of the help was treated.  I laughed out loud when once again, Minny’s hot head got the best of her – and yet wept for her when she went home with uncertainties that she may be beat again by her husband.

I never like to give away too much of a book in the review yet I have to share this part with you.  Towards the end of the read there is a moment when Aibileen and Minny are discussing lines.  Those invisible lines that we draw in our minds.  That line that we dont cross when we think someone is better than us or if we feel they are beneath us.  I loved that.

I hope I can be a person who always lives without lines.  I can’t encourage you enough to pick this book up and read it.  I am forever changed by doing so.

This book was purchased by me from Amazon

I would rate this book PG

Stay tuned to read what the Word Shakers On LIne Book Club are saying about this book

Morning Meanderings…

a big improvement5 hours to go and I am sitting almost like my skin in buzzing with the things I am completing.  Its all going well and currently Coffee Cup and I have just sat down to do a few blog visits while the laundry is going, the chicken is baking for one of the suppers I am leaving Al for the week, and the coffee cup is brewing a pot of Chocolate Covered Cherry blend as I ran out of my standard Folgers.

I feel good.

I stayed in bed a little later today to finish the last few pages of  The Help.  In a word?  Delicious.

Well… I have much to do.  I will be in Texas tonight (late night) we should get to or hotel anout 11 pm.  If not totally wiped I will pop in (I am attempting to bring lap top with me but not sure I will be able to use it in Honduras where we are staying or not.  They have a computer there but internet connection can be iffy.  We will see…

Couple more posts yet today and of course the sticky post to tell you all the exciting things that are going to go on for the next 8 days!

Author Chat: Sarah Lindberg

author chatSarah is a friend who I used to work with and I was there when she was working on her first book, Life’s Compass For Eternal Treasure.  I even was able to be one of her proof readers as she self published this book and that was pretty exciting!

Since that first book, Sarah was married and moved away from Minnesota to Florida where she now lives happily with her husband Paul.  She has written a  second book, His Hope For Your Destiny and is currently working on her third.  I had the opportunity in July of this year to interview Sarah here and she graciously offered her books for a giveaway.

This past weekend Sarah was in town for her sisters wedding and she and I were able to connect over coffee and catch up on what was new with her and about this third book that those who have followed her incredible writing style are waiting anxiously for.

Me and Sarah Lindberg


Ahhh!  Sarah it seems like forever since we have been able to connect!  I am excited to hear about the next book!

Sarah: Well, I am still working on it.  This one is coming along a bit slower than the first two.


What do you mean by coming along slower?

Sarah: In the first two books I was speaking directly about scriptures that were on my heart and I felt as though God just lead me through the writing.  In this book, I am coming in with a different approach and since this book is more in depth in different ways, I have to do more research.


So what is this book going to be about?

Sarah: This book is going to be about how thoughts and especially the negative thoughts that are verbalized around us can be taken in to ourselves almost like a toxin or poison.  This book is going to be how to keep true to God’s word, and to learn through His word how to snap off those dead branches, dead relationships even that are unhealthy for us to keep us growing in the right direction towards Him.  I am basing this book off of Philippians 4: 4 – 8, mainly on pure thoughts.  We have to train our thinking process, almost prune our thoughts.


Wow – that sounds really interesting!  Do you have a title yet?

Sarah: The title usually does not come to me until the book is finished.


Any time frame we can be looking at for this book to be available?

Sarah: The research is very interesting and I am still working on that part.  I am hopeful that it can be in print by late 2010.


Well I look forward to it!  Thanks Sarah as always for hanging out here at One Persons;s Journey Through A World Of Books with me.  Its always fun to hear what you are up to and I look forward to having you back to review and discuss your book!

Sarah’s Website

Word Verification Balderdash (the Thursday thing)

Baderdash fans… this fun meme is for you! I love word games (not as much as commenting).  To entertain myself and balderdashmaybe some of you… I decided to share with you a little thing I do while I type in the word verification.  I play Balderdash in my head.  Yup.  As I am typing in the word, I think if it was a real word… what would it mean.  Some come easy.  Others…. I really have to stretch the imagination.

The definition of Balderdash: An oft used strategy  to elect your own fake definition in an attempt to give it credibility in the minds of your fellow players.

So what do I have to offer this week?


Deminem: The new “it” jeans designed by Demi Moore.  These jeans are all the rage and seem to make your body look years younger and firmer than you are!  Only $150 a pair but truly a miracle material!  Just ask Ashton….


Etradr: A new movement common in big hospitals now where patients can request a second opinion and the Etradr can pop in and reevaluate.  This is believed to have been triggered by such companies as Geico and Progressive Car Insurance.


Wambaa: The ancient dance of the lost Wam tribe.  Last sighted in the  1880’s, the tribe was known for its “up and happening” moves that seemed before their time.  Dance moves involved sliding feet backwards to the beat of a drum and wagging their heads and arms.  Later, this period became known as the 80’s.


Pather: A person who is great at breaking trails.  Any good hunting group or camping pals should always include a Pather.  Perhaps if a Pather would have been present, the whole Friday The 13th thing at Camp Crystal Lake could have ended differently.  😉


Feel free to join in!  Grab the Balderdash box here and use on your own post.  be sure to let me know in the comments that you have done this meme and I will link you this post so others may stop and see your words as well.  🙂

See other WVB players here:

Wordsmithonia

Alexia’s Books And Such

My World



Morning Meanderings…

a big improvementI am going to have a busy day.  I am sitting here with Coffee Cup looking at my self inflicted day.  I say that becuase I could have done some of this earlier in the week….  but I didn’t.

So todays game plan (which I think should have background music to it)…



(Be sure to hit the play button above before reading on)  😉


Work in office until 2 pm (new software, making sure all is reading for me to be gone)

Prep new data instructions for the girls next week while I am gone

Go to post office mail books to winners

Cash checks for the trip

Go to Cell One and get a new charger for my cell phone

Mail doccuments for our team

pick up prescriptions at Wal-Greens and Wal-Mart

Shop at Wal-Mart for some snacks and a few things needed around the house

Tan

work out (hopefully) with my friend Heidi at 3:30

make dinner

Clean out the frig

Plan some things for AL to eat quickly while I am away

Pack!

Create things to discuss each day of the trip for evening discussions with team

Pre next weeks blog posts

Have e tickets ready as well as hotel reservations for tomorrow evening in Teas

Chech weight on luggage

Hopefully finish The Help book so I can prep the Word Shakers reviews becasue I reallyw ant that up before I leave

*whew*

“Winner Winner Chicken Dinner!”

Ok… so maybe not chicken dinner…. but books!  And books are really better than chicken because they keep you full and satisfied longer.  🙂

Lets get a drum roll going…

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I have 5 copies of The Historian to giveaway!

The winners are…

Alexia561

Jo-Jo

Kim

DarcyO

Debbie Walker


I have three copies of Bo’s Cafe to giveaway… winners are:

Wanda

Aliya D

MarthaE


5 Copies of The Bible Salesman for giveaway and winners are:

J Kaye

Laura At Im Booking It

Margie

Pamela

Molly Capel


Two winners for Beat The Reaper are…

Deedles

Booklogged


Congratulations to all the winners! You have been notified by email.  Please respond within the next 30 hours for me to pass the information on the publishers before I leave on Friday.

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Author Chat with Erika Robuck, author of Receive Me Falling

author chatOver the weekend I was able to indulge in the Read A Thon and the first book I finished was Erika Robuck’s wonderful read, Receive Me Falling.  Today, Erika has graciously agreed to hang out with me and discuss her book and what the future holds. Please join us over a great cup of coffee.


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Erika, thank you so much for hanging out with me today at One Person’s Journey Through A World of Books.  Erika, I have to ask about how this incredible read came to be.  What were the early thoughts about how this book would be written?  What was the draw to write about slavery?

Erika: A black and white photo of an abandoned, fortress-like hotel in Nevis with island children playing in the foreground of its imposing facade inspired me to write my book.  It got me thinking of slavery in the Caribbean, the contrast of the wealthy and the poor, the two classes interacting with one another on a daily basis, and the complexities slavery created in familial and generational relationships.

I’ve been drawn to books about slavery since I read Toni Morrison’s Beloved and Frederick Douglass’ Narrative of the Life of an American Slave.  Both touched me deeply.


I love that!  What a great image! Is there something that draws you to the time period you wrote about?

Erika: I wanted to write about slavery as it was ending in the British colonies for a couple of reasons.  First, it allowed me to educate my readers about the process of abolishing slavery and what was going on in England and the Caribbean at the time.  Second, I’ve always been drawn to the early nineteenth century because of the music, art, and literature representative of it.


I found this story line so interesting.  I really have not read much about slavery in the past and you really opened up a new area for me.  I found it very meaningful and I really was given a lot to think about by reading this book.   This is your first book.  That astounds me!  Were you nervous about finding a publisher?  Can you briefly explain the process you went through to find one?

aErika: After work shopping the novel for several years, I began the agent search.  I kept getting very far in the process, but continued to get turned down based on the fact that I was a first time, unpublished writer whose book crossed genres.  Publishers like books to fit neatly into categories, so a semi-historical novel with supernatural elements wasn’t well received from a novice.  However, many readers who had read drafts of the novel encouraged me to publish it myself so they could take it to their book clubs, mothers’ groups, and art festivals.  I was reading agent blogs where they advised first time writers to self-publish, build their platform, and if they were successful, use that in the query process.

My husband and I started a small press, published the book, released it for sale in March of 2009, and have sold about 1,000 copies.  I’ve been profiled in local papers and publications, have visited 20 book clubs that have read the book, and have had many signings and author events. Several agents have the full manuscript, and I hope to have an offer of representation soon.


You started your own press!  That is so great!  I really had a vivid image of the scene of the dead slave girl (page 153).  I found it to quite powerful.  I am curious as to what caused you to write about this particular scene.  What are you looking to show the reader?  To show Catherine?

Erika: The contrast of the rich and the poor was stark, and I wanted to emphasize that as much as possible.  I also aneeded my protagonist to see the horrors of slavery outside of her plantation.  Her slaves had been raised with relatively less violence than neighboring plantations, so I wanted my character to witness, first hand, the brutality of most plantations so that she would be more open to the abolitionists when they approached her.


The rum drinks throughout the book were almost a light fun part of what really is a good but not lighthearted read.  The drinks were actually a bit of “fun” I thought.  I liked how the drink title matched Meghan’s mood or what was happening.  Why did you put this in the book?

Erika: I wanted the reader to see Meghan’s personality prior to the incident with her parents and her fiancée to reveal that, before all of the tragedy, she was a girl who liked to have fun.  (Sometimes, she liked to have too much fun!)  Alcohol abuse was a prevalent theme in the novel both in the past and in the present.  I wanted to make the reader aware of when Meg used alcohol to self-medicate.  I had originally included the recipes in with the text, but an editor told me that didn’t match the serious tone of the book, so I just included the drink titles.


I read that you have another book in the works.  Can you share a little about this and when we can be looking for this one to come out?

aErika: Right now I’m immersed in researching Depression-era Key West, the Labor Day hurricane of 1935, and Ernest Hemingway.  Key West in 1935 is the historical setting of my latest work of fiction.  My protagonist is a housekeeper at the Hemingway home, and is torn between the legendary writer and a soldier.  I’m about a third of the way through a first draft of the novel, and hope to have a completed draft by the end of the year.
I would love it if you would share with us something that few people may know about you.

Erika: I used to be an elementary school teacher, and won a teacher of the year award my senior year in college.  I think my background in teaching and my love for research is important to my work as an historical fiction writer.

And like my present day protagonist, I love karaoke.

A teacher!  That is wonderful!  Thank you so much Erika for your time!  I adored your book and look forward to reading more of your work in the future!

Erika: Thank you!  I’m so glad you enjoyed the book!


See more about Erika Robuck here at her website as well as what is coming up for her.

Erika also blogs!  See her blog here

Morning Meanderings….

a big improvementI think at this point I need to start documenting how far I have got on my lists to do before I leave Friday afternoon.  Coffee Cup and I have made lists (large post it notes stuck to the kitchen counter of lists to pack, to do, and to buy….


Lets see….

Suitcase packed:  2%

Malaria Prescription picked up:  0%

To do list before I go:  45%

I will get there… I work well under pressure 🙂

So… today briefly I want to talk about book covers – I just love them!  I f I could figure out a way to use the covers as framed prints in my reading room without destroying the books, I would.  I think that would be fun to have them all hanging up – my favorite covers.

As I blog hopped the other day I found a new (to me anyway) blog called Jacket Whys.  I somehow linked to this blog by finding the post on the Best Jacket Covers of 2008.  I loved the one they featured called Triskellion.  I had not heard of this book but I wont forget it now because of that cover!  If you have a minute click on over to Jacket Whys and see this blog.

Have you seen this one for Wild Things?  (yeah – it is fur covered…. I dont think I like this one…. )

wild thingsHow about this one for Shadowlands:  The Immortal?

aOr this one called Gateway?

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When you think covers… what one comes to mind for you as a great cover?

It’s Tuesday, Where Are You?

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This is hosted by An Adventure in Reading

I am in Jacksonville, Mississippi.  Miss Skeeter and I have just crept through the dark night lugging a 50 pound typewriter to the home of Aibileen.  Aibileen is an African American maid and she is about to (hopefully) share with us the stories of what it is like to be a maid for the white folks of Jacksonville, Mississippi.  Miss Skeeter is going to write the story and hopefully it will be published – but I know this is a dangerous thing to do.  Abileen’s tension and fear of being caught matches Miss Skeeter’s level of excitement – and I fall somewhere in between.  I want to know Aibileen’s stories, as heartbreaking as I know they will be – but not at the risk of her safety.

The recent beating of the colored boy for using the white mans bathroom is all too fresh in my mind…

The Help by Kathyrn Stockett