Still Alice by Lisa Genova

Alice Howland has a wonderful life.  She has three grown children, a loving hard-working husband, and she herself is a well established Professor at Harvard.  At age fifty, she is not really too surprised when she starts to forget where she left things like her keys and her Blackberry.  She is a little more concerned when she gets lost on the Harvard campus that she has always known very well, but a brief Google check regarding menopause brings up forgetfulness as one of the symptoms.  Still… it doesn’t hurt to see a doctor…

Alice is stunned when she is diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s.  Certainly an active woman like herself, can beat this.  Yet what follows is a struggle of losing ones memories…. a family in despair and crisis, and a woman who is fighting the biggest battle of her life, just to be…

still Alice.

Lisa Genova has also written Left Neglected about a brain injury and Love Anthony will be out in 2013, about a boy with autism.

I didn’t want to read this book.

When my book club voted this as our May book club read, I was not thrilled.  There are few things that truly frighten me, but the thought of not knowing who you are, or fearing people you have known all your life as they have become strangers in your mind – truly frightens me.

When I posted I was reading this on my sidebar under the Bookies tab, many readers shared what an amazing read it was, and honestly – that helped me dip cautiously into this book.

I read it… in one sitting.

Author Lisa Genova wrote something wonderful here.  Brilliantly, the story is told from Alice’s perspective.  Seeing Alzheimer’s through her eyes was both frightening and informing.  I cringed when she introduces herself to the same woman twice, having forgotten she already had done so.  When she is lost inside her own home desperately looking for the bathroom, my heart breaks for her. 

Page by page as a reader, you are right there with Alice through good days and bad.  This fictional story flowed so well from the very start – moments of laughter and yes, moments of tears…. this book is a MUST READ.  If you are in a book club, it is an incredible discussion book as well, with questions in the back of the book.

I knew when I had read this book that our book club discussion was going to be deep and it was going to be good.  There was so much to talk about!  This week when we met and I started asking the questions from the book, I hardly needed to say a word… the conversation flowed.  The ladies in our group has much to say about Alice’s journey, her family, and their own personal connection to Alzheimer’s as well.

This is one of those reviews where we didn’t even really need the questions.  The book brought memories of people to our review that I had never met but wish I had.  Grandparents were discussed, some still living with the disease, and some who have passed on.  How Alzheimer’s affects each person differently was amazing.  Some reverted to a much younger time in their life, believing they lived somewhere else.  Others who had English as a second language – reverted to their first language.  Some remembered a spouse, but could not recall anyone else. 

And as in most Bookies events there was food.

Alice mentions enchilada’s early in the book so chicken enchiladas were a must!
Fresh salads and toppings!
Risotto with spinach for memory!
Blueberries and dark chocolate are mentioned in the book as brain and memory enhancers

Some interesting facts about Still Alice:  Still Alice was initially a self published book, and approved by the Alzheimer’s Society.  STILL ALICE debuted at #5 on the New York Times Bestseller list and has spent 40 weeks on that list. It won the 2008 Bronte Prize and the 2011 Bexley Book of the Year, and it was nominated for the 2010 Indies Choice Debut Book of the Year by the American Booksellers Association. It was the #6 Top Book Group Favorite of 2009 by Reading Group Choices, a 2009 Barnes & Noble Discover Pick, a 2009 Indie Next pick, a 2009 Borders Book Club Pick, and a 2009 Target Book Club pick. There are over a million copies in print, and it has been translated into 25 languages.  (as seen and noted on the authors website)

A few other thoughts on this book:

Musings Of A Bookish Kitty

A Novel Menagerie

Always With A Book

Care’s Online Book Club

Thank you to our local Library and their “Book Club In A Bag” program!

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In The Bag by Kate Klise

Daisy is traveling with her teenage daughter Coco to Paris.  When they arrive and Coco goes through her bag excited to take out the carefully picked out skirts, peasant tops, and super cure shoes, instead she find wadded up t-shirts and dirty pants.  Ugh.  Who packs dirty pants???

WRONG bag.

Andrew is traveling with his teenage son Webb.  Andrew had noticed the very attractive  woman sitting in 6-B, with her younger sister.  Ummm… too cheesy?  Ok her daughter, but she doesn’t look like she could have a teenage daughter!  He decided to slip a note in her purse when she is not looking.  When they arrive Web finds that he has the wrong bag…. filled with expensive shirts and clothing items he can not even identify.

While Andrew and Daisy try to figure out how to get the bag mix up settled, they are unaware that Webb and Coco are also working on their own “reunion”.

Kate Klise was the fourth of six children born to educational film producer Thomas and Marjorie Klise. Raised in Peoria, Illinois, she attended Marquette University and spent fifteen years working as a correspondent for People magazine.[2] She currently resides on a farm with a pond near Norwood, Missouri , where she has many friends who she describes as kind, generous, and always thoughtful. “My nicest characters always resemble them,” said Kate Klise. She is a vegetarian, who loves tomato sandwiches. ~Wikepedia
I knew when I chose this book it sounded like fun.  Visions of light summer reading, smiles and the occasional giggle escaping me while I sat on the deck slathered in tanning lotion drinking ice tea…

well that was the plan.

The book delivered, the weather did not.

Either way, In The Bag was as I had expected.  Reading the synopsis I knew this one was just going to be candy for my brain. I liked the alternation chapters between our four protagonists, Daisy, Coco, Andrew, and Web.  The note that Andrew stuck in Daisy’s purse cracked me up… totally GUY.  😛  The email exchanges are light and fun. 

In the end, a quick, fun, read.  That if you are going to the beach, this one need to be, in the bag.  😉

Thank you TLC book tours for a fun summery type book that made me crave beaches and warm sand.

 

 

Tuesday, May 1st: Seaside Book Nook
Wednesday, May 2nd: A Bookworm’s World
Thursday, May 3rd: 2 Kids and Tired Book Reviews
Monday, May 7th: Walking With Nora
Tuesday, May 8th: Book Hooked Blog
Wednesday, May 9th: Book Journey
Thursday, May 10th: A Musing Reviews
Monday, May 14th: A Cozy Reader’s Corner
Tuesday, May 15th: Life In Review
Wednesday, May 16th: Book Reviews by Molly
Thursday, May 17th: Good Girl Gone Redneck

The Selection by Kiera Cass

If I had to vote on a “best cover for 2012” book.. this one would be in the running.

~ Sheila

The Selection

America Singer is a young teenage girl. She lives in a country, Illea, where people are ranked by their skills, or in castes. America is a five, only three steps from the bottom. Fives are typically artists or performers; America is a singer and is skilled at a few instruments. Her family constantly struggles to get the food needed, as well as keep the house heated through the winter season. America lives with her mother, Magda, her father, Shalom, her younger sister, May, and her younger brother, Gerad. Her eldest siblings, Kota and Jenna, have moved out of the house. Aspen, a handsome nineteen year old, holds America’s heart. America cannot truly be with Aspen because he is a six; women hardly ever marry below them. Aspen can hardly provide for his family, especially after his father’s death. America, because of money issues, enters in the “Selection” a contest in which the king and queen of Illea randomly choose thirty five women between the ages of sixteen and twenty from each providence to compete for their son’s hand in marriage. America, of course, knows she has little chance of being picked, but enters the contest for the possible compensation that her family could earn if she is selected. When America is selected, her whole providence of Carolina is dumbfounded.

America goes to the palace only to escape Aspen, who has recently decided to end their relationship. It is here in the palace where she meets the kind, generous, caring, and funny Prince Maxon. America has no intentions of coming to care for Maxon, and expects to be sent home in the first week. To her surprise, she becomes very dear friends with Maxon. Despite her still nagging feelings for Aspen, she finds herself and the prince growing closer and closer together. After brutal attacks on the palace and a surprise appearance from Aspen, she knows she must chose between the two, but who will it be?

 

The Selection is a book that is portrayed in great detail, and lets you really feel what the characters feel. It shows you the true meaning of life, and mostly, the tangled ways of love and how it creeps up on you at unimaginable times. I personally enjoyed this book immensely.  I loved it, and read it in a matter of hours. It is extremely hard to put down once you start, and is interesting and pulls you in from the beginning. Looking forward to the next book!

Note from Sheila:  Camryn told me this is one I do not want to miss!  Also, the book cover pic is always linked to where you an purchase the book but I also heard it is excellent in audio as well.  Audio lovers, here is a link for you.  😀

 

Camryn is 12 years old, soon to be thirteen and enjoys reading YA books of the fantasy and romance genre. A few of her favorite books are “Hourglass” by Myra McEntire, “The Other Countess” by Eve Edwards, “Hush, Hush” by Becca Fitzpatrick, “The Immortals” series, the “Marked” series and the “Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants” series.  When she’s not reading she enjoys watching Gilmore Girls or going to book sales for more books to add to her ever-growing collection.

Home Front by Kristin Hannah

Michael Zarkades was a busy man.  His job as a lawyer kept him at the office late at night, and back again early in the morning.  His wife Jolene handled everything else, groceries, home upkeep, the needs of their two children, Betsy (12) and Lu Lu (4), bill paying, carpooling, and a pilot for the National Guards.  Their lives went 100 miles and hour – in opposite directions.

With a marriage already on the rocks, the news of Jolene’s deployment could not have been worse timing.  Michael had just taken on a tough case.  Betsy was practicing (and very well I might add) at being the “oh poor me” teenager, Lu Lu valued all her mommy time. 

With Jolene gone for what looks like will be a year, Michael gets a full dose of what it is like to try to manage  career and family.  When the unthinkable happens, this family with all of its frayed ends, will need to use everything they have to pull it together…. or unravel forever.

 

 

I have dabbled a bit through the years in Kristin Hannah’s books and have enjoyed what I have read.  Home Front was one that was introduced to me by a friend, and I was due for another audio so really, why not?

The narration was done by Maggi-Meg Reed and at first I could not get over how much she sounded like Kathleen Turner, A very strong, self-assured, sometimes over dramatic voice that at first bothered me, as it felt too strong for Jolene… and then later in the audio, I decided it was perfect for Jolene… in fact the parts where she reads the overly spoiled and whiny Betsy actually cracked me up.  (Even though seriously if there was ever a character I wanted to slap and tell her to grow up, it is Betsy).

The story told here is interesting as usually when we think of someone going off to war, it is the husband, or the son.  Kristin Hannah twists that up with the “what if instead it was a woman, and not just a woman, but a married woman with two small children.  What if it was the man left at home to handle things?

Jolele’s time away is riddled with her seeing war first hand, yet trying to make her family believe through the occasional phone call or email that she is in a safe zone, mostly flying around VPI’s.  While you see all that Jolene is hiding, you see Michael go from angry at his wife, to coming to more of an understanding of how serious where she is can be. 

It’s hard to say much here without giving away major plot points so I will just say that Kristin Hannah does a fine job of surprising the reader of what will happen next.  The easy answers, are not what we find here, but in the end, I think we can make peace with the way it is. 

While come parts of this book/audio felt unnecessarily drawn out, in the end, I liked it. 

 

Here are a few other fine Book Bloggers thoughts:

S. Krishna’s Books

A Bookworm’s World

My Friend Amy

A Musing Reviews

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Goodreads Review

Dead Running by Cami Checketts

What is it about running?  It can relieve a days stress, it can clear your head…. shoot it can ease a lifetime of sorrows, and for Cassidy Christensen, it can help her escape.

Cassidy is haunted with memories of the senseless murder of her parents, and now running has taken her to a new level of “escape” that she did not realize she needed, or wanted until she started to run.

RUN.

When Cassidy starts training for a Marathon (which she didn’t want) and captures the attention of two very interesting and good-looking men (which she did want), things become interesting.  Add in a couple of dangerous guys on the side that are not exactly looking out for Cassidy’s best interest, instead they are tied into her parents murder and still look at Cassidy as a pawn they can use….  Things, as Cassidy is about to find out, are not as she had been lead to believe…

RUN.

My blurb about the book is on the back cover….SSSQQUUUEEE!!!!

 

Dead Running starts out at a warm up pace.  As I dipped into those first pages I met Cassidy, her sister-in-law, her brother, a Nana, a great friend, a petite weird red-headed girl  here forward known as “Hot Redhead”  and a couple good-looking guys.  While my mind wrapped around who was who and what was what….

I started to warm up to a slow jog…

Entering Cassidy’s world was fun.  As a protagonist, I liked her.  I liked her a lot.  She was smart, but not fake, and funny…. a moment when she screams out “Pelican Poop!” when confronted with a mystery man at the front door caused me to laugh out loud, and I would soon find out that would not be the only time laughter would escape me during this read.  Her training for that marathon was inspirational, I wish I had her determination!  When she later gags while trying to swallow a Vanilla Flavored Gu, I laughed again.. this was a girl after my own heart… I have had the same reaction.

…and then I am running…

page by page I found myself flying through this book.  The characters are real, interesting and engaging.  Yes I too want to meet Damon and Jesse… I am just saying… 😀  Tie in a big mystery and a lot of danger and I was sold.  Cassidy’s sister-in-law Rachael “El” would be the sister-in-law I had always dreamed of, a friend and confident… and her BFF Tasha cracks me up.

Bottom line is – this book gave me all the good vibes of an early Stephanie Plum (Evanovich) novel without the ditsy main character, but with the hot guys, a meatier read, and just a lot cleaner all the way around.  I really loved it. 

Not many books will keep me in the house on my day off in my pajamas past noon just because I can not put it down long enough to take a shower and get ready for the day.  This one did exactly that.  Do yourself a favor and give Cami Checketts a try,  I adored her touching book Sister Pact, and really think she has grown even more as an author in Dead Running.

**  A few days ago I posted a wonderful fitness giveaway Cami Checketts is having in honor of this books release!  Please check it out… signing up is as easy as a comment.  😀

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A portion of the proceeds from Cami’s books will be donated to The Child & Family Support Center. For more information on this worthy cause, please go to www.cachecfsc.org

Thank you Cami for the advanced opportunity to read and review this book!


The Most Dangerous Thing by Laura Lippman

They were the best of friends.  Gwen, Mickey (both girls) , Tim Jr, Sean, and Gordon (Go-Go), the latter three being brothers.  They were then in their childhood, always together, always in the woods exploring and pushing the boundaries or their surroundings summer after summer.  Until that one summer when tragedy strikes, a secret is kept, and the five are never quite the same, nor their friendship quite the same… ever again.

Fast forward 30 years and tragedy has struck again.  This time it is with Go-Go, the youngest of the five, has died in what is still undecided… accident or suicide.  After all, Go-Go carried with him, perhaps the deepest secret of them all. 

The remaining four come together for the first time in many years, looking for answers, and wondering if that fateful day all those summers ago is not the answer to what haunts them still today.

Laura Lippman has written many amazing books. Of these.. I have read only three. I need to get going 😉

As anything that has the name Laura Lippman on it, I was excited to jump into this read.  The synopsis… friends from childhood go through something BIG together, are bound to a secret and as with all of us, adulthood happens… we move on, we move apart… and those bounds that were once so tight, are now merely spider web strong.  I do love books about friendships….

The Most Dangerous Thing is spilled out onto pages with multiple narrations, each of the five have an opportunity to tell a portion of the story.  I personally enjoy multiple narration when it is done well, chapters changing narrator, you get to see different sides unfold. Lippman does a pretty good job of not confusing me in the “who is telling the story now?”  I believe this is the first time I have read a book with this many narrators though. 

So hmmm…. where do I begin?

I have said in the past that I prefer books with fewer characters and I think that is because I really like to get to know a character.  In this read while the main five were doable, there are also the parents who are brought into the conversations and while that was done well, for me… it was a lot of voices in my head.  I think perhaps that is what leaves me with a “hmmmmmm” feeling.  I did not feel strongly for any one of them, while an interesting story – it branched out so much and switched narration to the point I never fully sunk into this read, and ooh, I do like to sink into a read. 

Overall I think Lippman’s writing is something to experience, however if you are new to her books I would not start with this one, she does have more engaging reads. The Most Dangerous Thing is a book that was interesting and held my attention, but was not a “WOW” for me. 

Her main character from her detective series, Tess Monaghan makes an appearance in this book and I thought that was kind of fun.  I like it when authors do that.

Thank you to TLC book Tours

for the opportunity to read and review this book

Unraveling by Elizabeth Norris

I am so looking forward to this read, Camryn does a wonderful

job making me want to read it now!  😀 ~Sheila

Unraveling

Unraveling is a book by Elizabeth Norris that is about high school junior Janelle Tenner. Janelle lives with her younger brother, Jared, her dad, James, and her bipolar mother. Janelle, while leaving the beach, gets hit by a truck. She could’ve sworn she died. She felt her heart stop. Before she knows it, she is looking into the eyes of Ben Michaels, a loner from her high school that she hasn’t spoken to before. She knows that Ben somehow saved her, and she is determined to find out how.

 

Janelle, after being let out of the hospital, goes home with her dad, just to find out he has a strange case about unidentified people dying of extremely severe radiation. Janelle’s dad works for the FBI. Ever the eavesdropper on her dad’s work, Janelle decides to dive deeper into the case. Dead ends and meaningless information push her towards Ben. She needs to find out how he saved her, but instead, she finds herself growing closer and more dependent on Ben. Can she find out Ben’s secret and solve the case without falling for Ben, or will she die trying?

The Unraveling - The Australian Cover - how awesome is that?

I loved this book. It made me cry. In my opinion, any book that makes you cry for at least two minutes is a good book, but any book that makes you cry for more than five is amazing. This book was amazing. It had detail, and was impossible to put down after I started. I am looking forward to more from this author. I would recommend this book to anyone who wanted a fast-moving novel, who wanted a great read, or wanted to read a story of true. The ending kind of made me sad though, it ended kind of abruptly.  It was still amazing.

Camryn is 12 years old, soon to be thirteen and enjoys reading YA books of the fantasy and romance genre. A few of her favorite books are “Hourglass” by Myra McEntire, “The Other Countess” by Eve Edwards, “Hush, Hush” by Becca Fitzpatrick, “The Immortals” series, the “Marked” series and the “Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants” series.  When she’s not reading she enjoys watching Gilmore Girls or going to book sales for more books to add to her ever-growing collection.

The Snowman by Jo Nesbo

"Nesbo", "The snowman"

On a chilly November evening in Oslo Norway, the snow if falling.  It is the first snowfall of the season.  When Jonas awakens in the night he discovers that his mother is gone, and in the yard a snowman has appeared, eerily facing the home instead of the street… and oddly wearing his mother’s scarf around its thick white neck.
Police Investigator Harry Hole is called to the scene of the crime and as the pieces start to fall where they may – Harry starts to see a pattern… many women throughout a series of years that have gone missing, on the first snowfall of a year.  When a letter addressed to him arrives all mysterious and creepy, Harry starts to see that he too is becoming a part of the killers master plan…
It looks like The Snowman may be a movie some day...

Jo Nesbo is an author I have heard much about.  I liked the titles and covers of his books and have felt for some time now that getting a Nesbo book under my belt was a must do.

Having now done that, I think I can check Nesbo off my “to do” list and move on.

What I liked about the book:  I can understand the fanship that has been created around Nesbo’s books.  He is well written, and the storyline is dark, yet fascinating.  The crime itself is well thought out and detailed so you can not only understand how Harry picks up on the clues and moves forward, but you can also understand how the killer thinks as well.  Well yes, CREEPY, it is also very well-developed both factual and fictionally.  The narration by Robin Sachs is melt in your mind fantastic!


What I didn’t like about the book:  Harry Hole (oh don’t even get me started on his name...) is in my humble and honest opinion… disgusting.   The language in the book at times made me cringe, even more so, the actions and descriptions of the many sexual acts that Harry is involved in made me come close to shutting off the audio many times and making an understandably DNF (Did Not Finish) claim to the book and move on.

Why I didn’t turn it off:  Unfortunately for me, and probably a win for Nesbo, is that if you could take out all the language and crap that made me want to vomit, the story line is a good one.  While this book as a whole did not appeal to me, I can see why it does appeal to others.  Nesbo can write great characters (ummm… not in their character itself, but as characters….) and great realistic descriptions.

Will I read Nesbo again?  Most likely no, while I did enjoy the writing, he would have to change into a completely different format for me to even consider cracking open one of his books or pushing play without cringing on an audio player. 

I had heard a murmur that these books were a bit like Stieg Larsson’s writing (Girl With The Dragon Tattoo), which I had only read one of his books but did not finish the series, I personally feel this book is darker and cruder that Stieg Larson ever was.

Ok, I will quit beating a dead horse…. errr, snowman here. 

Now… just because I love doing Beth Fish Reads Weekend Cooking, and I also love tying food into books I read… I am adding a simple recipe, but one that I would totally use if my book club was going to read this book (and I assure you, they are not!) as a group..

Cherries In The Snow

  • 1 (8-ounce) tub fat-free cream cheese
  • 1 cup sifted powdered sugar
  • 1 (12-ounce) carton frozen reduced-calorie whipped topping, thawed
  • 8 cups (1-inch) cubed angel food cake
  • 1 (20-ounce) can light cherry pie filling

Preparation

Beat cream cheese at medium speed of a mixer until smooth. Gradually add the sugar, beating until blended. Gently fold in whipped topping.

Place half of cake cubes in a large glass bowl; top with half of cheese mixture. Spread half of cherry filling over cheese mixture. Repeat layers with remaining cake cubes, cheese mixture, and cherry filling. Cover and chill.

*Not my recipe, this is from a favorite recipe site:  My Recipes.com

Goodreads Review

Here are some other reviews on The Snowman by bloggers I respect:

Leeswammes Reviews

Literate Housewife

Rhapsody In Books

Book Chase

You’ve Gotta Read this!

This audio was a win and a thank you to Jennifer from Literate Housewife,

even though I did not love this one, I am thankful for the

opportunity to experience Nesbo.

Dance Upon The Air by Nora Roberts

Nell Channing finally did what was long over due.  She found a way to escape her abusive marriage.  Feeling free for the first time since she can remember, she changes her look, and finds herself stepping off a ferry on to a quaint place called Three Sisters Island.  Nell was drawn to the stories around the island, the folklore that said the island was created by ancient witches in 1692 and still to this day carried the magic of years gone by.

Nell felt like she had found a home in this touristy island, and quickly secured a job at the local Book Store, Cafe Books, owned by the mysterious, Mia Devlin.  Mia had many island rumors circling around herself as well.. she owned the beautiful house on the cliff that could be seen from the ferry and was believed to have powers handed down from the generations of powerful women of the island before her.

And then there is Ripley, sister to the handsome sheriff, Zak.  Ripley, as Mia knows, is the second of the”three sisters” on the island that still carry magical powers, yet as much as Mia embraces her powers, Ripley rejects them, hates that this is a gift handed down to her from the island, and does everything she can to deny it.

But Mia, and with her pulse on the island itself is well aware of the power the island has given her.  She is also well aware that the island is called Three Sisters Island, and to complete the circle, there is to be a third.  Mia has a strong feeling the third part of the sisterhood just came to the island in the form of a small woman who is currently in her employment and seems to be running from something.  And that something, seems to be coming towards the island like a dark cloud that Mia can see and feel clearly, and she knows it will take the power of three to ensure the survival of all involved.

 

The audio was FANTASTIC!

Two things are true:  1.  This is not your typical Nora Roberts book.   2.  This is one on my all time favorite reads.

I first read Dance Upon The Air in August of 2001.  I know this for a fact because it was the first book our book club read together and because the book touched me so much that it graces my book shelf in triplicate, so I can always have a spare to give out to someone.

I LOVE books that have to do with strong, independent women, and if these women have powers… all the better.  Dance Upon The Air covers all this well, I often refer to this book as paranormal, before paranormal was cool.

There is so much I love about this book and the two that follow it, Heaven and Earth, and then Face The Fire – all written in typical Nora Roberts fashion with her trilogies, each book features one of the three women.  All equally awesome – which is rare in trilogies.

I have wanted to read this one again for a long time, but as book lovers know – its hard to get back to the ones you have read before when so many awesome reads are waiting to still be read…

I think I have found the secret to the re-read, try it in a different format.  In this case, I listened to this book on audio and I am so over the top thrilled that I did.  It is narrated beautifully by Sandra Burr  and I cant even tell you how relieved I was that this older read was delightful as well in audio.

Do yourself a favor and give this book (or audio) a try.  I think you will be pleasantly surprised and this is definitely a do not judge a book by its author.  (and yes, watch this weekend for a post on that!)

Goodreads Review

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Irregular Tammie

The Best Reviews

Belle Wong

World According To Books

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Whole Latte Life by Joanne Demaio

 

Long time friends Sarah Beth and Rachel decide to go into New York to celebrate their fortieth birthdays together, kind of a girls weekend.  They had charted out plans of things to see and do together, and over a lunch in a Manhattan restaurant, Sarah Beth takes this opportunity to excuse herself to use the restroom and then…

disappears.

Well, not exactly disappears as a frantic Rachel soon finds out.  She did leave a note:

Please don’t tell Tom about this.  I really need some time alone Rachel to sort things out.  I am so sorry to do this now on our fortieth birthdays.  I know it means a lot to you and I promise you another celebration.  We go back a long way and you are the only one who will understand and let me do this.  Let me walk away from it all for a little while.  It sounds crazy I know.  Please give me these couple of days alone to try to figure it out, to figure me out.

~page 5, Whole Latte Life

Of course a book that makes me think of coffee and friends is going to catch my eye!

Ok… who has ever wanted to run away from the life they have?  *raises hand*  I admit, I have had times in my life where I have thought “If only I could just get away from it all – no phones no communications, just me on my own”.  This is usually accompanied by some virtual vision of me either living in the woods and living off the land, or in a better scenario, alone at a beach house, far enough away from civilization that I can be at peace and alone, but not so far that I can’t drive in to a small town for groceries or a take out pizza.  😀

In Whole Latte Life, Sarah Beth takes that step that most of us have day dreamed about, and then push the thought aside as we get ready for our jobs, or cook supper.  As a character, I honestly can’t say I liked her.  Sarah Beth’s choices from the very beginning came off to me as selfish, and she never really redeemed herself in my eyes until the very end.  I understand in this book she has had a major loss in her life that contributes to much of her “fight or flight”, but I am thinking get yourself some help sister… see someone you can talk too. (Oh, and dont even get me started on her husband who goes from one extreme… to another). 😯  I am hoping I do not come off as not understanding what Sarah was going through…

I would also say, as I write this, that Sarah Beth is going through a bit of a mid-life crisis, and maybe saying “a bit” is not strong enough…. I would say it is a BIG TIME mid-life crisis.  She dwells on the path not taken, she wonders if an old flame may still be out there waiting for her… she has kids and a husband, but she seems to not think of them first, but instead herself.  (Which again makes me think get this girl a hotline to some therapy!)

Rachel on the other hand, I liked.  Widowed with a daughter, she is a good and patient friend to Sarah Beth, at least as much as she could be.  Her story line I found carried the book, even though the synopsis on the back of the book is all about Sarah Beth and Rachel’s name is not even mentioned. 

My final thoughts:  What I had hoped to get out of this book was a story of strong female friendship against all odds.  In a way that happened, but much differently than I thought.  I feel Rachel takes the leading role here not only as a true friend but as the story line I was most interested in.  I felt Sarah Beth got away with way too much for her family to endure as they did… and maybe that is just me being me.

The book is well written, and my ability to like or not like a character – is most likely, my issue. 

I recommend this book to anyone who ever felt their life was crumbling around them and survived through a supportive family or a great friend.

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