The Guncle by Steven Rowley

A sweet read about love, loss and courage
~Sheila

Patrick and Sara met in College and became close friends, almost inseparable. Sara was the first person to tell Patrick her would be famous some day…. She called Patrick out and while his attraction to her was in a sisterly way… he loved her all the same.

As years went on and Patrick did indeed become famous, and Sara fell in love and married Patrick’s brother, the two friends while still close… drifted with Patrick’s crazy schedule and Sara raising her two children. When Sara became sick, Patrick felt he had time to go and see her and vowed to do so….
and then it was too late.

When Patrick goes to the funeral he is asked a big favor from his brother, to watch his niece Maisie (9), and his nephew Grant (6) for a while as things are sorted out.

Thus begins an interesting summer, Patrick know to the kids as Guncle (Gay Uncle) has no idea how to entertain two children, especially two children that has just lost their mother – and his lifestyle is not exactly set up for young houseguests….

But a summer of togetherness may be just what is needed on both sides as the three go through changes, heartbreak, and rebuilding together.



I first heard about The Guncle on line when social media scrolling (don’t pretend you don’t do that…. ;P)
After coming off two heavy reads I was looking for something fun and lite and immediately secured myself a copy of The Guncle.
It checked the boxed I needed checked.
Lite, funny and heartwarming is the best way I can describe this book. You can see the relationship that Patrick and Sara had built the foundation of all those years ago come forth in what could be a very true situation.
Author, Steven Rowley does a wonderful job of capturing the essence of the children’s resilience and questions during a hard time. Don’t over think it, if you are looking for a sweet read – pick up The Guncle.

The Teacher by Freida MCFADDEN

Addie is returning to high school with the weight of the world on her shoulders. Last year, she was part of a student/teacher scandal that resulted in the teacher losing his job. Addie swears she did nothing wrong, however teenagers can be fickle and her once friends now eye her suspiciously and other than making trouble for her, have nothing to do with her.

Eve and Nate are both teachers at this high school. She is a math teacher and he works with poetry. Both have her Addie in their classes – Eve suspiciously keeps an eye on this troubled girl knowing she was the cause of her fellow teacher losing his job, Nate on the other hand, finds Addie to be full of compassion and hurt – all things that make for a good writer.

But can Addie be trusted? What really happened? And if happened once… couldn’t it happen again?

This was my first McFadden book. I was excited to read this as I have seen excellent reviews on this author through trusted fellow reviewers and friends. When our book club nominated this for our April read I was excited to put my vote on this choice.

After reading a series of heavier books, this came as a welcomed easier read. I listened to this on audio and enjoyed the narration by Leslie Howard and Danny Montooth, they flowed well with the story line, so well, that when they switch you do not event notice as it is all part of the story.

I enjoyed the book – although if you read it, you might find that a strange choice of words – but you know what I mean. I did feel that there was a point that was leading to a big plot discovery that I felt this was all going to be a ploy by the author to get us to think one way and shock us with another. Admittedly, I was a little disappointed when instead, it was not a ploy and felt a little like the easy route.

Final over all thoughts – the book did not disappoint. There are twists and turns that keep you turning the page because no matter how you feel about this book, you do want to know how it all comes together…. and that my friends does give me the “WHOA…” I was looking for.

Overall rating by me… a solid 3 (average). I will read her again as I am now curious as what else she brings to the table. There are some elements I plan to bring to the Book Club discussion and food. ;P

The Old Man and The Sea by Ernest Hemingway

When in Key West, you should not miss out on this historical tour and learning more about one of the great authors of our time. ~Sheila

Santiago was a fisherman. Old and without any luxuries of the world, he lived in the same clothes day in and out, the same raggedy blanket that covered him each night, and with the ease of someone who wants nothing from the world.
For a while, a boy had fished with him, but after a long stretch of time… more than 80 days of not catching one fish, the boys parents removed the boy from Santiago and put him on another boat that was successful catching fish.

Santiago decides he needs to go our further and deeper than he has been and sets up for a journey alone although the boy offers to go with him. With his eyes and heart set on catching a big fish, Santiago finds he is in for the journey of a life time.

When in Key West, you would be remiss to not take the time to tour the Hemingway Home and Museum. Did you know Hemingway had over 70 cats? Did you know that many of the Hemingway Cats and their descendants still live there? I was going to count the cats… I gave up within 10 minutes. Indoors and outdoors, on his bed, in the book store on a shelf, in a planter sleeping in the sun, on the roof, everywhere outside. It was actually pretty cool – with places for them to sleep and a large feeding area.

The house itself was fascinating, going through his writing space, seeing many pictures or him with actors and learning more about him then I ever knew.

In confession, I have never read a Hemingway book until now. Before leaving I went to the onsite bookstore and chose The Old Man and The Sea. I read this one afternoon in Fort Myers Florida. It is not a large book, easy to read in one or two sittings… but it is a powerful one. I knew the tale before I read the book, however reading it brought it all together for me, and experiencing this was an adventure of my own.
Hemingway won the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1954 and died on July 2nd, 1961.

Through the years I have tried to put on my radar to read the big names of literature. Hemingway is one I can now cross off that list.

Presenting The First Books of 2024

Thank you to everyone who sent in a picture for First Book! For such a tipsy turny event this year, I am thrilled to see all the First Books! Below the Photos you will find the book list. While perusing through these great ready – be on the look out for authors – Heather Gudenkauf, Randy Sue Meyers, Lorna Landvik, Cary Griffith, Jill Hannah Anderson, and Fiona Davis who shared the book they are starting the New Year as well.
If you find me… you will see I went old school. There is something about the New year that makes me want to re-read an old favorite that brings back the warm fuzzies I had when I first read it. Books… make memories…
I hope your year is filled with great reads and amazing adventures.

Happy 2024.
~Sheila

First Book of 2024 – The 11th Annual!

It’s Happening! I am excited to announce that this is the 11th Year of The First Book Event! If you put “First Book” in the search on this page you can bring up the years and years of fun posts and pictures of people all over the world with their first book of the year that they are planning to read or are reading into the New Year! It’s a great way to get ideas on what is being read and what to add to your own To Be Read list!

So what is First Book?  First Book is the first book you plan on reading in the New Year.  It can be a long-coveted read you have not had time for, a guilty pleasure read like a re-read of a favorite…  really it can be anything – it is…after all…YOUR First Book.

Make it AWESOME.

Once you have picked what it will be -email/ Facebook message/ text me a picture of you with the book (send it to sdechantal@gmail.com).  This adds to the excitement of the First Book.  You have between now and December 31st to send in your choice.  On January 1st I will post all the pics in a collage format of all of you around the world that are doing First Book.  I do hope you will join me – friends, family, fellow book lovers, a friend of a friend of a friend… you there in the corner looking at this crazy site for the first time – you as well.  I enjoy putting this together every year and seeing all the great books and pics come in really makes my heart smile.

Here are just a few of the over 100 books that came in last year:

It’s fun. It’s easy to do. And honestly… gets me through the New Year.

1. Take a photo of you with the first book you plan to read for 2024

2. send it to me – sdechantal@gmail.com – or if you have my number text it to me or send it on messenger through Facebook.

Have FUN!!!! Happy Christmas!!!

~Sheila