Things are not always as they seem… Thank goodness! ~Sheila
When almost 70-year-old Daphne joins the Senior Center group that meets several times a week, she envisions tea drinking, discussions on how the weather affects their bones, card playing, and perhaps the occasional round of bingo… a good fit for her goals of being more social….
Instead, Daphne finds herself among a variety of interesting characters, such as Lydia in her early 50s – #empty-nester/neglected by her husband, who started the group, Art ( failed actor and occasional shoplifter), Ruby and Anna, and Ziggy, a young single dad and a senior dog. )
While this may not be the group that Daphne imagined, carrying her own secret baggage as well, it turns out it is the exact group she needs when their beloved senior activity center risks being shut down, and their pooled experiences, along with the sweet children of the also housed daycare, use their skills ( as well as secrets) to fight against the odds.
Our Bookclub the Bookies, has had some great and deep reads this year. In fact, this may be one of our best years of selecting excellent discussion books in quite a while. Of course, some of these heavier books take a little longer to read – and while creating great discussion, can also bring up triggers when you have a group as large as our book club is ( 16 strong).
Going into December… we must have all been on the same thought on this, as the books being nominated were not the deep dive reads we have been selecting – but instead, a selection of lighter topics, with How To Age Disgracefully by Claire Pooley among them – and as you can see here – winning the vote.
This review is my opinion, and once our group meets, I will update to add the Bookclub’s overall thoughts as well. Sadly, for the first time in Bookie history, the weather cancelled our December discussion and Christmas Party, and we have put a pin in this discussion until we meet on the secodn Tuesday of January. By then, I will have most likely read several other books, so I felt it best to get my review in now before I lose it to something shiny on my brain 😀
Admittedly, early pages felt slow…. slog-worthy. I can chalk that up again to not being one of the big titles we have read recently that hit you in the face with a shovel full of synopsis right from the start, and you are struck dumb and powerless to stop reading until you reach the final page…
This one…
more like…
knit one
pearl two…
But then – it picks up. In a word, it’s fun. I like fun. As you get to meet this hodgepodge duct-taped-together group… flaws and all… You start to feel for them. And if they know it or not… they need each other.
Written from 4 different perspectives, they give each other a little something something to dig into… a little purpose.
I enjoyed the fun flow of this read, hoping for myself as the clock turns that I too can surround myself with such an interesting group of people.
Rated: 3.6 out of 5
Read Author Before: no
Read Author Again: I would be interested in looking at what else she has written
Book Club Worthy – yes! Book clubs can discuss that groups gathering ( much like book clubs) each bring a little something to the group, and we can discuss what that is – as well as what aging looks like and the importance of staying connected to others.
Adventure awaits!













