Girl Fight! Why Amy (Gone Girl), Kick A** over Rachel (Girl On The Train)

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**  Warning this post will contain potential spoilers to both Gone Girl and Girl On The Train

 

Recently I finished the book, Girl On The Train.  If you have been on the blogesphere lately you may have noticed this book.  It is… EVERYWHERE.  An EVERYWHERE book does not necessarily constitute a need for me to read it – however, my interest was piqued.  Having seen it was being compared to Gone Girl increased that interest.

Now, having read both books, I have thoughts on why Amy from Gone Girl makes for an excellent protagonist and why Rachel from Girl On The Train does not.  (Yes I know I am poking the bear)

Amy

Amy Dunne is brilliant.  Scary brilliant.  She can be the “everything woman”.  When she meets Nick she is exactly who he wants her to be.  She is sweet, beautiful, vulnerable.  She makes Nick feel like a man and he falls in love with her.  BUT (and it is a big but.. we are talking baby got back but!) we all know that Amy is flawed… more dangerously than Rachel because Amy can cover her flaws well.  It is not until later in the book that we discover how flawed Amy really is…. twisted and damaged to the core she still ends up on top even in the end.  Those who know her true colors are few and too afraid of her to do anything about it.

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Rachel

Rachel comes with a lot of baggage.  Most prominent is her trouble with alcohol.  Her inability to stop drinking puts her immediately at a disadvantage.  She is a burden on those around her.  She can not hold down a job.  As a witness, because of her drinking she is unreliable.  Those who try to like her find her to be too much work and they quickly move on.  Rachel has dug herself into a deep hole.  In the end, she pulls herself together and is working towards being a person who will probably trump Amy in genuine niceness and togetherness.. but for me, it was too little too late.

 

Unreliable narration is the hook to both of these books.  Can we trust what the narrator is telling us?  Narration to narration I still give Gone Girl the win as when the book turned and twisted to what was really going on I was BLOWN AWAY.  When Girl On The Train twisted I was surprised, but not over the top.  I think by that time I had spent so much time struggling with Rachel that I was not engaged enough to appreciate what was indeed, an excellent twist of events.

 

Disclaimer:  This post is all in fun.  Based on my thoughts, solely my opinion, on both books and their protagonists.  I actually enjoyed reading both books, just had a protagonist issue with Girl On The Train (my issue.). Let’s discuss!  Did you like one protagonist over the other?  Is it even about the protagonist or is more about the narration that makes the books?  Do you agree or disagree with what I have said here?  Is it even a fair fight?

WHERE Are You Reading Challenge 2015

Where Are You ReadingJanuary 1 2015 – December 21st 2015

 

From the website that brings you the weekly meme, What Are You Reading, it seem only appropriate that I continue to host the WHERE Are You Reading Challenge.  I started hosting this challenge in 2010 and have enjoyed marking off the states every year  🙂

 

How do you decide what state a book is categorized under?

1.  In a fiction read it would be the State or Country that the book spends the most time in.  (Ie. If your main character is from Wisconsin but the book is all about his/her time in college in California – the books should categorize under California….)

2.  Non fiction reads categorize  in whatever State or Country it is about (Ie…. a book about fly fishing in Colorado is a Colorado point, and a book about women in Afghanistan is an Afghanistan point.

3.  If the book goes from one state to another… go with the state that most of the time is spent.

How to get started

Grab the challenge button (above) here for your posts and sidebar.

Set up a page to capture your states, countries, etc… however you want to do it.  Here is mine for a sample.

Additionally, some like to add their books to a Google Map which can be fun to put all the book titles on a map and watch it fill up but of course this is completely optional.

 

Questions?

Do you have to have a blog to participate? No.  You can do everything on an excel spreadsheet or in a notebook without linking the book to a review.

Do I have to have my post up by January 1st, 2015? No, but I would think you would want to get started right away at the beginning of the year.  However, you will be able to sign up throughout January as well.

Do audio books count?  ABSOLUTELY!

Once you are ready and have your list and/or map set up please create a blog post (those who have blogs) using the meme picture I provided above as well as link to this post so others may join in.  Then come back and link that post here to Mr Linky (below) so I as well as other participants know that you are participating and we can pop in throughout the year and see how we are all doing.

This is actually a fun and easy challenge as all books you read qualify and it will be fun to see where you generally read books as well as searching out books to fill in areas that you need.

For those who have covered the 50 states by the end of 2015, they will go into a drawing for a $25 gift card to Barnes and Noble or to Amazon.  **  All other areas beyond the 50 states are bonus points and we will have a drawing ($10 Amazon or B and N gift card) using random.org for those who read 10 or more books throughout 2015 in that category.

That’s it!  Here is a link to tips on how to do it.  Any other questions – please leave them in the comments section below.

I can’t wait to see WHERE You Are Reading!

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Universal Studios: The Gringott’s Bank Ride Review

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Early today I posted about Universal Studios Harry Potter World all all the amazing new items to see and do.  The real big harry audacious idea behind Diagon Alley would be the addition of the new ride, Gringott’s Bank Ride.

Seriously… this is the MUST RIDE of the park.  Harry Potter fans – do not miss this impressive addition!

When Justin (my son) and I went on the ride it was over an hour wait to get on.  Long yes?  Worth it?  YES.

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The bank line area is impressive.  If I was that old dude from Jurassic Park I would say, “No expense was spared!”  Beautifully lines walls, realistic looks bank desks, offices, and more.  The line up of animated goblins was really cool!

Beautiful decorations…

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The ride is a car with four seats across, three rows per car.  Its one small drop in the beginning but the rest is mainly simulated with excellent graphics and effects.  Of course riders, we are trying to avoid that pesky dragon.

Don’t miss out on this ride!!!

Looking For Potter Heads! Winter Re-Read/Readalong

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Are you a Potter Head?  Do you….

Sometimes find yourself whispering a spell under your breath at a family member, co-worker, or friend?

 

Get excited every time you see one of the movies playing on TV?

 

Have now or ever in your past used a Harry Potter type of ring tone (this also counts if your phone case has now or ever been Harry Potter)?

 

Own(ed) any sort of Potter paraphernalia – IE.  Article of clothing, movies, costumes, a wand, board game, posters, bookmarks, signs… ok – you know what I mean ;).

 

Ever went to Universal Studies in Orlando mainly because of Harry Potter World?

 

Recited movie lines or profound Dumbledore quotes with a sense of superiority?

 

Well… if you said yes to any of the above.  YOU are a Potter Head.  And this post is for you.  AND if you are new to the whole Potter literacy PHENOMENA, well, first I take a moment of silence for you…. and then I offer you to read on as well, as an opportunity awaits you as well. (you will be known as First Years)

Starting in November I will be hosting a Harry Potter Re-Read that I am SUPER EXCITED about.  Pull those books off the shelf, or pick them up at your local library, download on your e readers, or listen to on audio (also super fantastic with either narrator I am just saying!).  However you decide to join in… all are welcome.

Throughout our 5 months allowed for the Re-Read there will be dates to discuss the book, add your posts, or add comments to the new tab I will have right below the Book Journey Header.  You can pop in whenever you want to add your thoughts, look for new contests, etc… check back often – not everything will be posted and I want to keep this as lose as unstructured as possible as that is where I thrive best.

If you want in… and I hope you do… please grab one of the following memes from below for your own blog.  If you do not blog, see below for further instructions.

 

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Once you have chosen your House, please write a post about your involvement in this project as well as what year you are (see years below to help you).  By writing a post you will be helping to pass the word about this Re-Read so more may hear about it and join in.  You may also choose to leave a comment here about which House you are in and what year you are.  *This will also be where those without blogs can can leave a comment of how they are participating.

So… here is how you decide on what year you are:

First Years:  You have read The Sorcerer’s Stone or you have not read and Harry Potter books

Second Years:  You have read Sorcerer’s Stone and The Chamber of Secrets

Third Years:  You have read the two mentioned above as well as The Prisoner or Azkaban

Fourth Years:  You have read the three above as well as The Goblet Of Fire

Fifth Years:  You have read the four above and the Order Of The Phoenix

Sixth Years:  You have read the five above and The Half Blood Prince

Seventh Years:  You have read all of the Harry Potter books

 

Now, some of you may be unsure what house you may fall in.  So we will pull out the sorting hat.  Click below on the sorting hat to have the hat choose a house for you… but know this…  what you desire is also considered, so you may choose your own house as well.

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The “loosely applied” reading of each book will look like this:

Nov 1 – Nov. 16 – The Sorcerer’s Stone

Nov 17 – Dec. 6th – Chamber Of Secrets

Dec. 7 – Dec. 29th –  The Prisoner Of Azkaban

Dec 30th – Jan 20th – The Goblet Of Fire

Jan. 21st – Feb 13th – Order Of The Phoenix

Feb. 14th – March 7th – The Half Blood Prince

March 8th – March 31st – The Deathly Hallows

 

There you have it!  All communications will be under the tab under the Book Journey Header called “Harry Potter Re-Read”.  As I mentioned check it often as surprise posts and giveaways will be added by sponsors as we go.

Special note:  You will win “House Points” by participating in commenting, giveaways, and more (all of this will be revealed thought the Harry Potter Re-Read tab).  Your house point totals will show under tabs as well.  It s going to be good fun!  Really!

To commit (and so I can communicate with you if you win anything) please sign up using the form below:

I will personally be kicking off with a trip to Harry Potter World in Orlando Florida.  I will send some posts from there and give you a peek at some of the items that may be coming home with me for giveaways!

 The hashtag for the read-a-long on twitter is #hpreadalong

  Hope you will join me!

Delancey by Molly Wizenberg

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I just LOVE foodie stories! I don’t know what it is about them but I love to read about the food, the people, the recipes, the tastes, and how it all combines into something wonderful!  ~Sheila

 

Molly Wizenberg loved that her husband Brandon Pettit was passionate about so much.  A composer, Brandon also was fascinated by espresso machines, boats, building violins and learning to make ice cream.  Molly loved how Brandon wold go after a project and soon, as the pattern seemed to be, Brandon would move on to something else.

When Brandon purchased a large mixer for mixing dough for a potential pizza restaurant Molly was not too worried thinking this too would pass.  But pass…

it did not.

Brandon went on to search out buildings and signed a lease.  Like it or not, Molly was about to have her world enter the pizza business.  And their lives as they knew it were about to change.

Before Molly knew it they were renting cleaners, building an oven, cleaning floors, painting, watching thrift stores for tables and chairs, planning menus, and passing inspections.

Like it or not, Delancey was going to happen.

 

 

 

I absolutely loved this book!  Author Molly Wizenberg shares with us the story of how the now popular Delanceys Restaurant in California rose out of the dust of an old building to the place it is today.  From their early marriage days as Molly wrote her first book and Brandon spent night and day working on the restaurant that was to be.  When they first opened, money was so tight they bought the ingredients they would need daily and hoped to make enough money that day to buy the next days!

Delancey’s if filled with delicious recipes of the food that Molly and Brandon ate during the lean years of little time and little money.  The recipes look delicious and fairly quick and easy which is always a plus for me.

Molly is the creator of the blog Orangette, but fair warning.. its easy to spend a lot of time there!  Also check out the website for Delancey.  Molly is also the author of A homemade Life:  Stories and Recipes from my Kitchen Table.  Another book I need to read!

 

 

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster (May 6, 2014)

 

 

 

Banned Book Week Giveaways (sticky post)

1a  Banned Book Week is here!  Please check out the giveaways happening around the blogs – and here!  Enter the post page here and find all the current giveaways and banned book posts!

*Note:  Commenting on any of my banned book related posts this week will enter you into my giveaway.  (one entry per relevant comment)

This is a sticky post.  All current posts are below – this post will remain on top during banned books week.

 

Looking For People To Join In The Banned!

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The air is starting to hold a chill and the leaves are starting their last hurrah… and yes, Banned Book Week is approaching fast.  For the fourth year in a row I will be hosting one of my favorite reading events – Banned Book Week.

So Sheila, what exactly do you mean by banned books?

Thank you for asking!  Banned Books are books that have been challenged to be removed from a location – ie… Library, school, book stores, etc… because someone believes that the book is unsuitable for many reasons:  language, subject material, graphic, sexual, suggestive, you name it – someone will try to ban or challenge it.

 

What is the difference between a challenge or banning?

A challenge is an attempt to remove or restrict materials, based upon the objections of a person or group.  A banning is the removal of those materials.  Challenges do not simply involve a person expressing a point of view; rather, they are an attempt to remove material from the curriculum or library, thereby restricting the access of others.  Due to the commitment of librarians, teachers, parents, students and other concerned citizens, most challenges are unsuccessful and most materials are retained in the school curriculum or library collection.

 

What sort of books are we talking about here Sheila?

You would be shocked.  I was!  We are talking (and this is just to name a few…)

Charlotte’s Web (talking animals int he work of Satan!)

Lord Of The Rings (Satanic!)

The Harry Potter Books (Witchcraft!)

Huckleberry Finn (language!)

Tom and Huck (boys behaving badly!)

To Kill A Mockingbird (Use of the “N” word)

Fahrenheit 451 (for _get this- burning of books and banning people from reading)

Hunger Games (kids killing kids)

Little Red Riding Hood (the cover appears that “Red” just might have wine in that basket for Grandma)

 

It would actually be funny if it were not true.  The list goes on and on including most of our classics.  Here is a more extensive list of some of the top banned books through the years.

Why do I get involved?

There are some amazing reads on this list.  For the past 4 years I have dedicated Banned Book Week to only read banned books and because of that I have read some great classics, re-read some childhood favorites, and explored new books to me as well.

Do not get me wrong – being pro-banned books does not mean that I want to read every banned book.  For instance, I have no interest whatsoever to read 50 Shades Of Gray.  However, I do not have the right to say that because I choose not to read it that no one can.  That is the difference.

 

Join Me!

As in the past years, I am looking for awesome people like you to join me during September 21 – 27 to either:  share a favorite banned book post, read and review a banned book, write a post about why banning is wrong or a personal experience with a banned book in your area, etc…  Sign up below and I will connect with you on the day that you are willing to post.  Banned Book Awareness is a great way to explore amazing reads and remind us that we have the freedom to read what we choose.

 

There are lists of Banned Books everywhere and I have yet to find an amazing all inclusive one, but here are a few areas to look for a list so your Banned Book Reading Week:

List Of Books Banned By Governments

Frequently Challenged Classics

Good Reads Banned Books

Most Surprising Banned Books

Highlighted Banned Books

Top 100 of 2005

Banned Books That Shaped America

 

I hope you will join me!  I will have a banned book post up every day and off the top of my head I believe I will be reading Uncle Tom’s Cabin, In Cold Blood (our book club read for October), and I have always wanted to read Lord Of The Flies.

Making Habits, Breaking Habits by Jeremy Dean

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Did you know that one-third of your day is on auto pilot?  And I don’t mean when we are sleeping.  I mean when we are working, working out, cleaning, eating… and yes – driving.  Jeremy Dean explains why habits are so hard to break, but not impossible.  This book is how to take charge of our brain and make it stick, resulting in a happier, healthier, more creative and productive you.

 

 

Honestly…. I have been listening to this audio off and on for so long now I do not even recall why I first wanted to listen to it.  I believe it was because I find the human psyche to be fascinating.  What makes us tick?  Why do some think it is ok to do the things they do (thus my interest in true crime), and why do some of us work so hard to do good and others really do not care…

Habits, I guess are one of the things that interest me.  Why is my routine to get up around 6 am each morning 7 days a week, grab my coffee and merge with my lap top for at least an hour?  Why do I not instead put on some pounding music, and hit the downstairs treadmill right away for 30 minutes as I wish I would do?  Why do I constantly notice what time it is in the morning and say “Oh crap!” And run to get ready for my day?

And I know this isn’t just me…. we all have our routines/habits and some are good – kudos to you that do get up and take a morning walk consistently or hit the gym… you are my heroes and I strive to be you!  But maybe some of us have trouble rolling out of bed by 9?

While the book gives good advice on how to break a habit and the research is well laid out and even fascinating, I did not come out the other side feeling I had learned anything I did not already know or if I did not know, once I heard it thought it was common sense.  While interesting, probably not a book I need to listen to again.

And yeah…. I still get up at 6 am and drink my coffee and putz on my laptop and ignore my treadmill. 

GAH.  😉

 

 

Morning Meanderings: Learning Something New – Extracting Honey

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Happy Saturday!  Another week has flown by!  This week I have been working in my office on rewrites, research, a couple of days dedicated to the baskets for the auction next Friday prep,Book club and an author event, and I spent some time extracting honey.  Yup honey.

For this weeks Saturday Snapshot and Weekend Cooking I thought I would share some pictures of the amazing process of honey extracting.

My friend Amanda started raising bees a little over three years ago.  The fun thing about her story is that she is pretty much self taught between books (yay books!) she purchased at our local book store and You Tube Videos.  What started out as a hobby has grown into a full grown commercial bee business from rearing her own queens, splitting hives, providing bee nucs for other companies (pretty much a bee starter kit), pollinating almond trees in California – and of course producing and selling honey.

Her business, Buck’s Busy Bee’s has grown exponentially and as of this fall she will have over 2,000 hives.

A few months ago I was contracted to write her story for our local magazine Her Voice.  That article came out this week but unfortunately while in magazine format, has not yet been put on line so I am unable to link to it.

I have helped Amanda off and on through the years from going into the hives, to building the frames that go into the boxes they live in, to harvesting honey, and now most recently; extracting the honey.  When giving my notice recently to invest more time into the writing opportunities that are coming in, Amanda asked me if I would want to assist her with the bees when I am able to.

Uhhh…. YES.

I really do enjoy learning about the bees and this is the final push before the bees are trucked off to the warmer states – Florida and California where they will spend their days in the sun, probably in the next 5 weeks or so.  Amanda’s husband owns a trucking company so he takes the bees to their warmer destination as they do not do well in the cold Minnesota winters.  Lucky bees!

So here is the process:

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This is a bee yard. Amanda has 53 of these around the area. They are secured with electric fencing to keep critters out such as bears. Each box holds 9 to 10 frames. The frames are where the bees make brood (babies!) and honey. When the frames become full, another crate is added to the top of the stack so they have more room to do their thing. If a hive remains full and no box is added, the bees can become frustrated (panic mode) and leave the hive as a swarm. It is important to keep them happy 🙂

 

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When the honey is harvested from the hives, it is loaded into boxes and then taken to the Honey House, a sanitized area that the honey will be processed in.

 

 

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The frames are now individually processed by using a special tool to gently scrape the capped honey. This loosens it up for the next step. Both sides of a frame will have honey on it.

 

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The frames now go into this great device that will spin the honey out of them. I am sure there are more technical terms… but this is the basics of what happens next!

 

 

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Here is the “Extractor” in all of its glory. I call it Dorothy because it reminds me of what they used in the movie Twister to put the little balls in the air to create read outs of tornado conditions.
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Just a quick visual of Dorothy from the movie Twister…. 😉

 

 

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Up close and personal – this is what it does. The honey runs out into these screened buckets. The screen captures all the wax and filters out the pure honey into the bucket. It takes approximately 30 minutes for “Dorothy” to spin out 10 to 12 frames.

 

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The next step (which I neglected to take a picture of) is pouring the honey from a bucket with a spout on it into assorted honey jars. That is what I helped with. The honey is prepped, then capped, and ready for sale.

 

Each host home, (a home that has given space for there to be hives on the property) will receive a case of honey as a thank you.  The rest of the honey will first go on sale at the Little Falls Craft Fair which is the 6th and 7th of September and after that what is left will be on sale on her website.

It really is a fascinating process and who knows… maybe someday I will write a book about bee keeping, or have a bee keeper character in it.  😉

Stop by Buck’s Busy Bee’s on Facebook and like the page.  Giveaways are going to start on Monday on the Facebook page and winners will be drawn from the page likes 🙂

This post is a part of Saturday Snapshot where people all over the world post pictures of what they are doing, or what they have done in the past.  It’s great fun so pop on over to West Metro Mommy Reads and see what others are taking pictures of 🙂  I am also linking this to Weekend Cooking found over at Beth Fish Reads because this is kind of a foodie post too 🙂

Orphan Train – Bookies Review and Author Christina Baker Kline Event

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A few days ago I posted my thoughts on Orphan Train by Christina Baker Kline.  Last night, the Bookies Book Club met for pizza and reviewed this book as well and then followed up by seeing the author speak.

The whole Orphan Train experience has been fun.  First, our Book Club won the books from a Harper Collins on line contest.  Then our Library secured her to come and speak in our town, AND it just happened to be on the day our book club normally meets AND happens to be the Bookies Anniversary month (13 years!), it sounded like a fun night.

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Bookies discussing Orphan Train over dinner.

When we went to see the author of  Orphan Train speak we were in for a real treat.  Christina Baker Kline was a delight to listen to.  She put an impressive amount of research into the book, fueled on to the topic as her husband’s grandfather was an orphan on the train.

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When Christina asked the audience if anyone knew someone who had been on an orphan train, a third of the rooms hands shot up.  Wow. 

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As you can see, Minnesota was one of the higher states as far as the count of orphans were that road the trains.  It was sad to learn that only 30% of the children were orphans.  Many were abandoned, and some were even taken.  Christina said that you did not want your children outside after dark for fear that they be snatched and put on the trains.

The children mainly were between the ages between 2 and 14.  Preferred were boys between the ages of 9 and 14 as they were handy to use on the farms and they could sleep in the barn.  Babies were the next in demand and these trains of babies were called Mercy Trains.  The hardest to place were girls as they could not do the physical labor that was needed and they were more underfoot as girls did not sleep in the barns but in the homes instead.  Harder yet to place, Christina said, was red heads.  No one wanted red headed children or children with freckles.  Christina had articles where they specifically said they do not want any red headed children claiming that they were more prone to disobeying and fights.

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Most of the children were not adopted by the families that took them in.  Adoption meant inheritance and people did not want these children to inherit their lands.  They were chosen and signed for with very little paper work – and yes, like in the book Orphan Train, some were abused.

The trains ran from 1854 – 1929.  Over that time more than 100,000 children were placed in homes – many with no records of who they were or where they came from.  Christina had documented conversations with some of the Orphan Train riders she had spoke with and even though the survivors are now in their later 90’s, they still say they always felt something was missing – while they may have been placed in good homes, they still felt somewhat disconnected and knew that “these were not my people.”

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When Christina first started her research she was able to connect with around 60 Orphan Train Riders.  Now she said there is about 25 left in the world, and it is their descendants that have picked up the torch to carry on the research and the questions yet unanswered.

The Bookies overall rated the book a strong 4 out of 5.  Most of us really enjoyed the historical fiction mixed with fact.  Following up with the author event was a real treat and for me, has left a need to know more.  This will not be my last look into the Orphan Train.  Thank you Christina Baker Kline for opening our eyes to such an important part of our history.

 

Do you know anyone who has ridden the orphan trains?