Social Justice Challenge March 2010: Domestic Violence and Child Abuse


I should have had this post up closer to the beginning of the month, but here I am, over half way through March (can you believe that?)  and I am just now getting to it.

Domestic Violence and Child Abuse are subjects that tear me to my very core.  I have been a Kinship Partner for 7 years now.  The Kinship program is a lot like a big brother, big sister program.  You become a mentor to a child and spend time with them weekly doing whatever – watching a movie, going to the park, working on a project, whatever….. you are just to bring the child into your life.  If you follow this blog,, you have probably heard me talk about Chance.  Chance has been our families Kinship Partner since he was 7 years old.  At the end of May he will be 15.

I mention Kinship Partners not because it has to do with the Social Topic for March, but because as a Kinship Partner you are a Mandatory Reporter.  Basically that means that if I see or hear anything unusual – I have to report it to the proper authorities here in my county.  Learning to do this, and learning what it is about, has really opened my eyes to things I do see not only in my own community, but so much of it in Honduras when we are working with kids there.

I find this to be such an important topic that I went a bit wild with the books that were listed at The Social Justice Challenge Website and checked out several that I hope to be able to read and review yet this month:

I hadn’t Meant To Tell You This by Jacqueline Woodson (this one I have read and reviewed)

Because I am Furniture by Thalia Chaltas

Three Little Words by Ashley Rhodes Courter

Ghost Girl by Torey Hayden

Another Place At The Table by Kathy Harrison

I Am Missing Or Dead by Janine Latus

I am ending this post with a link I found to 10 Signs of Child Abuse.

Morning Meanderings…


I never once made it back on-line yesterday after I took off for St. Cloud.  I didn’t anticipate it taking the whole day, but it did! Productive though because Colleen and I had a lot of fun chatting the hour drive there and back, we purchased all our needs for the home show this upcoming weekend and had lunch at Red Lobster.  Fabulously yummy.

Once home, late afternoon, AL and I went to Best Buy to pick out a computer for our new Office Assistant that starts this Monday.  We were there over 2 hours and when I got home I was so tired I didn’t even check my lap top…. instead I read and finished the delightful, 13 Hours.  (Review will be up today)

Today’s Morning Meandering is going to cover three winners.  First up is yesterdays review and giveaway of My Shoes And I.  I had so much reading this book and am excited that the author has graciously offered a signed copy of the book to one lucky commenter from yesterdays post.  Coffee Cup and I pulled our Random.Org…. fired it up and it picked commenter #4:

ellie

YAY ellie!  Woo hoo!  I have emailed her this morning and once I have her address I will connect with the author to have the book mailed to her.  🙂

Next I have three sets of The Swan Thieves on Audio by Elizabeth Kostova to give to three lucky commenters.  I have been listening to these CD’s in my vehicle every time I drive anywhere.  I just started the last CD yesterday so I will soon have a review on this.

Our winners of the audio sets are:

Cindi

JoJo

Lydia

Woo Hoo Winners!  I have emailed you all this morning (well, Coffee Cup and I), and once I hear back from you with addresses and shouts of joy I will forward your info on to the publisher to have these moving towards you! 🙂


And finally, I have had so much fun with the “Oh Snap!  Guess What I Got? post.  That was the post with all my treasures (my precious!) from the library sale I attended a week ago.  I had a giveaway idea to have all of you tell me which book you would love to own and that would be the one I would read first and once read I would pass on to the person who had asked me for it on the comment list.

This is exciting because this will actually motivate me to read these books!  🙂  So using Random.org this morning, the person whose comment won is:

Ryan

and Ryan had chosen the book Titanic 2012!

Congratulations Ryan!  I am a huge Titanic nerd – love all things Titanic, have several movies and books on the topic and even a newspaper replica of the front page of the sinking of the Titanic.  I know I know,  could I scream dork any louder?  LOL

I will read this one as soon as I can and pass it on to Ryan.  This idea was so fun I think I will use it again after I complete this book to have you all choose my next read out of the sale box as well.  🙂

This morning I am hanging our right here for a while with Coffee Cup.  I have a review to write, blogs to visit, a challenge to work on….  I ran so hard this week I have decided to hit the brakes this morning.  And then kick it in gear again this afternoon.

Any fun  plans this weekend?

My Shoes And I by Rene Colato Lainez w/ Giveaway!


Written by René Colato Laínez
Illustrated by Fabricio Vanden Broeck
Boyds Mills Press

*ISBN-10: 1590783859

Mario is leaving his home in El Salvador. With his father by his side, he is going north to join his mother, who lives in the United States. She has sent Mario a new pair of shoes, and he is thrilled. He will need good shoes because the trip will be long and hard. He and his father will cross the borders of three countries. They will walk for miles, ride buses, climb mountains and wade a river.

 Mario has faith in his shoes. He believes they will take him anywhere. On this day, he wants to go to the United States, where his family will be reunited.

René Colato Laínez’s inspiring story, dramatically illustrated by Fabricio Vanden Broeck, vividly portrays a boy who strives to reach a new land and a new life.

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This was a wonderful read about a boy, his travels, and of course his shoes.  His shoes take him everywhere…  Throughout the book Mario goes through many travels and trials.  Each page shares Mario’s story along with beautifully illustrated pictures of course, including the shoes.

I feel that sharing this lovely book with a young child would be fun as we turn page after page.  I imagine the child would be excited to hear the story and follow the pictures.  I cant wait for the chance to so just that!

I had the opportunity to ask Author Rene Colato Lainez about his journey through publishing.  The topic always interests me and here is what Rene had to say:


Hello Sheila,

I am René Colato Laínez, the Salvadoran award winning author of I Am René, the Boy, Waiting for Papá, Playing Lotería, René Has Two Last Names and The Tooth Fairy Meets El Ratón Pérez. My picture books have been honored by the Latino Book Award, the Paterson Prize for Books for Young People, the California Collection for Elementary Readers, the Tejas Star Book Award Selection and the New Mexico Book Award. I was named “Top Ten New Latino Authors to Watch (and Read)” by latinostories.com. I am  a graduate of the Vermont College MFA program in Writing for  Children & Young  Adults.

My goal as a writer is to produce good multicultural children’s literature; stories where minority children are portrayed in a positive way, where they can see themselves as heroes, and where they can dream and have hopes for the future. I want to write authentic stories of Latin American children living in the United States

In 1985, my father and I left El Salvador to come to the United States. This journey of crossing three countries has always been present in my writing. When I was in college, I started to write about my journey. I titled the story “Hacia el Norte” (Going North). It was written in a series of journal entries and I was practically retelling my journey step by step.

In 2004, I was doing my MFA in writing for children at Vermont College. I realized that “Hacia el Norte” could become a great young adult book. I reread my original story and it was all over the place. My new goal was to fictionalize the story and to concentrate on my main character. I was ready to start my manuscript when Phyllis Root became my new writing advisor.

I was born in a tropical country. In El Salvador it is summer almost all year long. I live in California and here I can only see some snow on the top of the mountains. I experienced my first snowy day in Montpellier, Vermont. Oh my! It was hard to walk in the snow. I was trying to walk to the cafeteria in my baby’s steps when I heard Phyllis Root’s voice, “Hello René, we are almost there.” During lunch, I told Phyllis that walking on snow was similar like crossing the mountains in Tijuana, Mexico. Soon, I was telling her about my journey and my special shoes that my mother sent me from the United States. Phyllis was fascinating listening to my story and she told me, “René this can be a powerful picture book.”

Later that week I found out that Phyllis was my new writing advisor for my second semester. I was so happy to write my stories and have feed back from this talented amazing author. When we met to discuss the plans for the semester, she told me that she want to read my manuscript about my shoes. But something in my mind, was telling me “No, I think this is my young adult novel and not a picture book.”

I sent my first packet of work and Phyllis told me, “Great work! Are you working on your shoes story?” It was time for the second packet and I wrote new stories. Phyllis reminded me, “How is your shoes story coming along.” For the third packet, I felt that I needed to write something about my shoes to Phyllis. So I wrote my first line, “I love my shoes. They can take me anywhere.” I really liked this line and kept writing for two hours.

Yeah! I had a story MY SHOES AND I. It came directly from my heart and it was an authentic story about immigration. At this point, I agreed with Phyllis, “This could be a powerful picture book”. I revised the story in the next months. Soon it was summer, time to come back to Vermont.

For the second semester reading night, I chose to read MY SHOES AND I. At the end of my reading, I had a standing ovation from everyone in the room. Author Jane Resh Tomas whispered in my ear, “Great Story, René!”

The following day, Author Carolyn Coman told me that she had heard great comments about my story and asked me if she can read it. But the end of the residence, Carolyn told me that she had an editor friend that might be interested in my manuscript. She acted like my agent and submitted the story for me.

Leave a comment here today and you will be entered into a giveaway for an opportunity to win a copy of this book from the author.  This is a one day giveaway so put your comment in today!

If you would like to see more reviews on this book:

Monday March 08-Mayra Calvani http://www.examiner.com/x-6309-Latino-Books-Examiner

Tuesday March 09-Lori Calabrese http://www.examiner.com/x-7597-Childrens-Books-Examiner

Wednesday March 10-Christina Rodriguez http://www.christinarodriguez.com/

Thursday March 11-Silvia http://www.mamalatinatips.com/

Friday March 12-Monica Olivera Hazelton http://www.latinbabybookclub.com/

Monday March 15- Tina Nichols Coury http://www.tinanicholscouryblog.com/

Tuesday March 16-Michael Sedano http://www.labloga.blogspot.com/

Wednesday March 17-Caridad Pineiro http://www.caridad.com/blog/

Thursday March 18-Sandra Lopez http://sandrasbookclub.blogspot.com/

I received my review copy from Bronzeword Latino

Morning Meanderings…

This morning I was thinking about the first morning meandering….  it started as just a morning that I just wanted to chat… not review.  And it was never meant to be an ongoing thing….

but then…

I received emails about the meanderings… how people liked them and looked forward to them… and I happily agreed that I liked them too…. so this morning as I type this, the 156th Morning Meandering with Coffee Cup beside me, I encourage you to read the first… the original….  Morning Meandering.

Have a super fab day….. I am working out early early early and then off to St. Cloud with my friend Colleen to make purchases for next weekends Builders Show.  We are going to do lunch hopefully somewhere fantastically delicious and then back to town this afternoon.

The Gospel According To LOST by Chris Seay

Lost is NOT just a television show. It has become larger than that-a massive story filled with mystery that has garnered over twenty million participants. Some might call them viewers, but one does not just watch Lost, one participates in it. It demands that you dialogue with the story, seeking theories and comparing yourself to characters. Lost breaks all the formulas for television, and in doing so has drawn together millions of people on a shared journey that explores life, faith, history, science, philosophy, hope, and the basic questions of what it means to be human. It is the seemingly infinite ideas, philosophies, and biblical metaphors that make this story so engaging.

The focus on faith and truth is never more clearly explained than in the words of John Locke as he questions Jack Shepherd asking “Why do you find it so hard to believe?” Jack responds quickly “Why do you find it so easy?” But Locke declares “It’s never been easy.” This tension between Faith and Reason drives every episode and story line. Locke summed this up as he explained to Jack “That’s why you and I don’t see eye-to-eye sometimes, because you’re a man of science—Me, well, I’m a man of faith.”

I think we have all seen books like this around – they are based on a popular TV show or movie and then a book comes out about the faith story behind the show – or more often, the lack of faith and Christian theme in a particular show and suddenly there is a book telling why we should not be watching it… and certainly save your friends and family from the evils of said show as well.

For these reasons I usually avoid these type of books.  I enjoy movies and tv shows for the entertainment value in them and no more.  I do not want to be told why or why I shouldn’t watch a show.  But this one called to me….  for one it is written by Chris Seay and while I may not be familiar with his writing, I know he keeps good company with the likes of Don Miller (Blue Like Jazz) and secondly – and at the time, more importantly – this is about LOST.  And if you have had the opportunity pleasure of experiencing this phenomenon from season one…. you truly have to know that this show has something special going on….

But enough about the show.  This is about the book. And I have to tell you…. while I went in skeptical…. I came out the other side raving. Right from the start Chris Seay’s layed back way of writing made me feel very comfortable going forward in the book.

Chris brings each character to their own chapter and pulls out very real, very biblical traits.  Every character in lost is broken in their own way – damaged people – with their own story line.  As the seasons go on you see differences in the characters, whatever their baggage once was – they start to grow from it.

In almost a faith like way we see Sawyer start out as a hardened unlikable and annoying character who keeps to himself.  As the show progresses Sawyer learns that sometimes we need others in our life and turns out that being in community with others, is not so bad.

Jack is a man of science and John Locke is a man of faith….. While jack has to have an explanation for everything… John Locke immediately senses there is something about the island and whatever it is, by faith he is going to believe in it.  (*Information on John Locke of LOST and John Locke the philosopher was fascinating!)

Kate comes off the plane as a criminal being tried for murder.  As she grows, she comes to terms that everyone can seek forgiveness and begin with a clean slate.

Filled with plenty of Biblical references I found myself reading this book every chance I had.   Chris pulls the gospel out of a secular show and I found this to make for good reading. I feel now I will be watching this last season of LOST with new eyes.

After all Lost is all about the moving of an island…. is that so different from moving mountains?

If you are a fan of LOST and enjoy a good faith-based read – I recommend this book highly.

About Chris Seay:


Chris Seay is a leader in the emerging church discussion, church planter, author, and third generation baptist pastor. Currently, Chris is the President of Ecclesia Bible Society where he is orchestrating a Scripture project that seeks to retell the biblical narrative with the literary beauty of great poetry and story as well as historical truth. As Pastor of Ecclesia Houston, Chris leads a unique congregation that is living out the gospel faithfully in an urban environment. He is also the author of seven books, including The Gospel According to Tony Soprano, The Gospel Reloaded, and The Last Eyewitness.

My Amazon Rating

I received my review copy from Thomas Nelson Reviews

Morning Meanderings…


Ooh!  I slept late….. I have like a sinus cold going on and it has knocked me down the past 15 hours.  I did not get half the things done yesterday that I wanted to.

However in recap – I had so much fun being a part of Cathy’s Scene Of The Blog yesterday.  Thank you again to Cathy for hosting me, my reading/reviewing space, and apparently my dog too….LOL

Today I am taking my sorry sneezy self to work for about 30 minutes before I need to run to a builders meeting.  We are one week out from the home show so I really need to attend this meeting.   To execute this will be a triumph of its own since I am sneezing every couple minutes….

Book reviews to catch up on, a few giveaways to do….. I think I need just a weekend of blog time to get organized around here!  🙂

I must get moving…. Coffee Cup needs a refill and I must make myself presentable for human contact!  Have a super fab morning everyone!  I do have a review up in a few hours.  🙂

I am finishing up The 13th Hour.  What book is in your hand today?

Morning Meanderings….


Oh what a beautiful morning…. oh what a beautiful day!

Here’s what  is happening in my little corner (not even a corner really – more like a “cornerette”)”….

1.  I won an Amazon gift card from Tia from Tia’s Comfy Place!   An Amazon Gift Card…. that’s like Gold!  That’s like Gollum going after the ring in The Lord Of The Rings…. “My precious!


2.  I think I found an office person for our business!  Squee!!!  After interviewing people for three weeks I think we have a winner!  🙂


3.  Today Cathy at Kittling Books has me featured today at Scene Of The Blog.  Double Squee!  Please stop by and check it out.  I would love that and will be commenting at her blog as well as here today. Cathy rocks!  🙂

Please click on the Scene Of The Blog Logo here to go to the post at Cathy’s….

Have a great day everyone!  I have a few winners to clear up later today and I think another giveaway coming up too!

Oh and Happy St Patrick’s Day!


I Hadn’t Meant To Tell You This by Jacqueline Woodson


Twelve-year-old Marie is one of the popular girls in the prosperous black suburb. She’s not looking for a friend when Lena Bright, a white girl, appears in school. But the two girls are drawn to each other. You see, both Lena and Marie have lost their mothers. On top of that, Marie soon learns that Lena has a terrifying secret. Marie wants to help, but is it better to keep Lena’s secret, or to tell it? Their friendship—and Lena’s survival— may depend on her decision.


I read this book as part of the March Social Justice Challenge.  I have heard wonderful things about Jacqueline Woodson and I was glad to have the opportunity to read one of her books.

I Hadn’t Meant To Tell You This is the story of Lena, a new white girl in a school that’s population is mostly black.  Marie, who is an upper class African-American becomes the unlikely friend to Lena, who usually looks dirty and unkempt next to the fashionable and popular Marie.

Right here – right with this friendship I was already liking the book.  With both families frowning on their daughters friendship with someone who is “another color” .  I appreciated that this book was in contrast to many others I have read, and it is Marie’s family that had the money and the nice home was the African-American family, and it is Lena’s home that is in the bad neighborhood.

This book gets deep when Lena confides in her friend Marie that her father is touching her inappropriately.   Marie, who has never been around such a think has a hard time wrapping her mind around this, even accusing Lena of  lying for attention.  This subject in the book, as well as Marie’s reaction to it, seems very well written…. I can picture it happening.

Lena makes Marie promise not to tell anyone and this is another part of the book where you watch Marie try to help without being able to.   All she can do is  look out for Lena when she can.

I don’t want to give too much away about this book, however I did find that when it ended I was left with many questions.  I didn’t feel the closure this book needed and was concerned where this left younger readers who may be searching for answers within this book.  I was pleased to go on-line and find out a sequel to the book had been written called Lena – and it continues the story from where this one left off.

This book touches on sexual abuse by a parent.  It is a quick read and the book is very clean, never explicit in details.

While the cover above is the one on the book that I read, I really prefer this cover here:

Jacqueline Woodson is the recipient of the 2006 Margaret A. Edwards Award honoring her outstanding lifetime contribution to writing for teens. Woodson’s sensitive and lyrical books reveal and give a voice to outsiders often invisible to mainstream America. The award was announced January 23 at the 2006 Midwinter Meeting of the American Library Association (ALA) in San Antonio

“I Hadn’t Meant to Tell You This,” and its sequel, “Lena,” (reprint available in fall 2006), both from G. P. Putnam Sons, a division of Penguin Young Readers Group, tell a story of interracial friendship with no pat solutions to the problems of race, class, abandonment and abuse, while a compassionate community offers hope and support. A young boy records his fears that his mother’s new lesbian relationship will change their family bond in “From the Notebooks of Melanin Sun,” published by The Blue Sky Press, an imprint of Scholastic.

My Amazon Rating

I received my copy of this book from our local Library

Morning Meanderings…

It’s Tuesday and by the time you are reading this I will be gone.

Ok – now that sounded a bit morbid. Not gone as in “gone”… but at the gym. My day is full and this is the only time I can get in my workout today. I have a full day at work, interviews to do this afternoon and a meeting tonight. Busy Tuesday.

This morning I thought I would chat about the last two movies I have seen, Shutter Island and Alice In Wonderland.


A week ago Sunday I went with Al, Justin, and Chance to Shutter Island. I read this book years ago and loved it. LOVED it. I couldn’t wait to see what they did with the movie. And I suppose, I could say the movie was ok. I don’t know if I was hoping for something too incredible – from a memory of a book I have not read in years, but the movie just didn’t hit the spot for me. It was average and I think the twist at the end was a bit different. I think it twisted… and then twisted again.

On this past Sunday I went with Chance to Alice In Wonderland. This one was more of a default movie. I wanted to spend time with Chance (our Kinship Partner) but didn’t have a lot of time and didn’t really know what we could do. So I checked the movie theater and this is the only one that looked like we would both may enjoy and was age appropriate (he is 14).
Whats funny about this movie is that the sell for me was really to see Johnny Depp and how he would take his role to the next level. What surprised me was that the character I thoroughly was impressed with Helena Bonham Carter, the Red Queen. I seriously thought she stole the show – and made the movie for me.

There is something also about Alice.  Mia Wasikowska has a look about her… always serious always thinking…. she appears to be a deep character and she plays Alice well.

Overall, I have to admit I was more impressed with Alice In Wonderland (which I didn’t really want to see) then Shutter Island (which I did want to see).

How about you, have you seen any of the movies out now or do you hope to see any of them?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading?

Another Monday!  They just keep coming don’t they?  🙂  I would say I had a pretty fair week…. I am back to working out and making time for reading as well.  All is well once again with my world.

I am ready for this week and hope you are too!  Thank you as always to those of you who went out to visit other Monday What Are You Reading posts last week and left comments.  My wish is always that not only do you pick up on some great books, but also some great bloggers!   Last weeks winner (out of those of you who told me in the comments how many blogs you commented on – 1 entry for ever 10) using Random.org is:

L Y N N E

Congratulations!  You get to choose an item out of the Prize Box !  Let me know your pick here as well as email me at journeythroughbooks (at) gmail (dot) com with your mailing address!


Here is a brief update of this last week for me:


Waking Up In The Land Of Glitter by Kathy Cano-Murillo (book review)

The Next Thing on My List by Jill Smolinski (book review – and book club review)

Three New books for giveaways (check them out!)

Cold Streak by Lewis Aleman (book review)

Oh Snap!  Guess What I Got? (My Library Sale post and an opportunity for you to grab one of these books for yourself!)


This Week’s Plan…


Have you heard of this book?  It starts with chapter 12 and works backwards through the story.  I don’t know how to describe it well but I am flying through this read!


I am so beyond pumped about this book!  It has been on my shelf too long and this week I am going to enjoy sinking into the pages of this high adventure!


Another book I am extremely excited about.  This book is the true story of the difference one family made by making the decision to live with half of what they had.  Even typing about it now makes me want to start on this book right away.  I have a feeling it will remind me a little of the Kingdom Project ( a huge pay it forward book) that spoke volumes to me about 6 years ago.


So that’s mine – can’t wait to read about yours!  Be sure to link to the McLinky here – he has been very user-friendly.  Also – if you are out visiting fellow Monday memer’s be sure to stop back this way and let me know how many so I can count you in for the drawing for next week.  One entry per every ten and you have all week to do this.

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Have a wonderful week everyone!  May your reading choices be everything you had hoped for!