Morning Meanderings…

Good morning!  SATURDAY!!!!  Did you know this is my favorite day of the week?  I love Saturdays, they are days that only have things “to do” in them (usually) that I put there… not put there for me :D.  Today is one of those Saturdays.  I am going to go help a friend this morning and then hit the gym for Zumba after that. 

Then I think I will be home.  I would love to do a little reading… and little writing. 

For Alyce’s Saturday Snapshot I thought I would post some old pics’.  Don’t you love old pictures?  I always look at them in awe when I think how much photography has changed in just a couple of generations…. we can do so much with a picture now…

 

This is my Uncle Dallas on the bike and my mom, Elaine riding on the back. My mom said her nick name growing up was "ping pong" because her hair was white blond as a child.
This is my Uncle Dallas on the bike and my mom, Elaine riding on the back. My mom said her nick name growing up was "ping pong" because her hair was white blond as a child.

 

This is my my Great Grandmother (left) holding my Aunnt Jackie and my Great Great Grandmother (right) holding my Uncle Dallas)
This is my Great Grandmother (left) holding my Aunt Jackie and my Great Great Grandmother (right) holding my Uncle Dallas)

 

Neither of the pictures have dates on them but my mom was born in 1948 so I am guessing the top pic has to be the early 50’s and the lower pic as my Aunt Jackie is older than my mom would have to be mid to late 40’s.

That’s it for this morning… working on a review for this afternoon. 😀

Enjoy Every Sandwich by Lee Lipsenthal w/ giveaway

Lee Lipsenthal helped thousands of patients through his job as the medical director of Preventative Medicine Research Institute.  His job was to help those with serious diseases to overcome their fears of pain and of death.  Lee was extremely successful in making others feel comfortable in their time of greatest need.

Then in July of 2009, after a doctors visit it was discovered that Lee had esophageal cancer.  Shocked, a now numb Lee stumbled through the every day motions of making his wife feel safe and his two children secure.  Lee made a decision then and there that he was not going to stop living, just because he was dying.  Instead Lee continued to live life even fuller than before realizing that every bite of life counted…. every flower, every moment, ever conversation….. Lee learned to enjoy Every Sandwich.

For me it is this one self that is not identified with cancer, pain, or fear.  Cancer is just a physical event of the moment – it just is what it is.

Lee Lipsenthal

Late last year I read The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch  and this book reminded me a little of that one.  Lee, like Randy, had been given a terminal diagnosis…. and Lee, like Randy, decided that they were not just going to lay down and die… but choose to live each day as best they could. 

Lee chose to live by rules that each of us should apply in our lives anyway:

Make unconditional love a practice.

Fun stuff happens every day, embrace it.

Find joy in your work.

Be committed to make a difference.

I have to admit I struggled with Lee’s thoughts on God (or what he called the “God Neuroimagination”) and some of the different ways he experienced or pursued spirituality.  It did seem as though he did experience Jesus at one point and that I was thrilled about. 

I liked some of the things that Lee did or suggested.  Writing three things down each day that we are grateful for that happened that day before we go to bed?  I love that!  Who am I kidding?  I need that! 

Lee’s story is bitter sweet.  In his final year he reminds us that life is short for all of us.  It’s too short for fighting or separating yourself from family and friends, its time we all take a closer look at the things, the people we take for granted. 

I lost my entire immediate family by the time I was 29 years old.  I am a firm believer in experiencing the things you have always wanted to try, and to forgive because life is too short to carry the pain of grudge, anger, and resentment.  Lee reminds me that each flower is one of a kind and the smell of a spring day is one well worth taking the time to breathe into my memory.

Lee Lipsenthal:  August 13th, 1957 to September 20th, 2011.  This book was released to the public for sale on November 8th, 2011.

I have one copy of this book available for giveaway – to enter for a chance to win it, leave a comment here letting me know something you live by or wish you did (ie… always saying hello to people you pass on the street, holding door open for people, helping someone in need, never going to bed angry…)

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I received this book through Big Honcho Media

Make Lemonade by Virginia Euwer Wolfe

LaVaughn is an urban 14 year old and she has dreams for college.  “College,” as described by LaVaughn is a big word for her home where she lives with her mother, “and you have to walk around the word like it is furniture.”

To make her dreams of college come true, LaVaughn takes an after school baby sitting job for two small children.  Their mother Jolly, is an abused seventeen year old who is trying to hold a job with little skills and manage a home and two children with little success and a perpetual feeling of overwhelm.

Although LaVaughn’s mom tells her daughter to proceed with caution and not get too involved, LaVaughn’s support of Jolly has potential to lead to greater things for all involved.

The 2nd book in the trilogy....
The 2nd book in the trilogy....
The 3rd book in the trilogy....

 

I really enjoyed my time in LaVaughn’s world.  Lavaughn at 14, is more mature than the mother of two Jolly at 17.  What author Virginia Wolfe writes here is a story of circumstances.  LaVaughn’s home life is centered around a single mom who works hard, shows value to what she owns and teaches her daughter these same skills.  One works hard to have what they have.

Jolly on the other hand was never given the opportunity to learn these skills.  She never had loving parents around her having grown up in foster care with a lady names Gram who passed away.  She did not finish high school, and her housekeeping and parenting skills are…. ummmm…. lacking.

At times the book was emotional, when  Jolly experiences sexual harassment at work she does not know that she has rights, after all hasn’t she been used one way or another all her life?  Yet that is the beauty of the story as these two people under different circumstances come together and learn from each other.

LaVaughn’s story continues in the second book called True Believer, and finishes in This Full House.

 

I listened to this book on audio from my local library

Morning Meanderings… Bookish whereabouts….

Good morning!  A quiet one here at the DeChantal home but a productive one book wise…. 😀

This morning I woke up at 2:30 am…. probably because I went to bed at 9:30 (I know – so weird for me, I am a midnight girl!)  Awake, I worked on my bedside read of Every Last Sandwich by Lee Lipenthal.  I have been struggling a bit with this one and hope to finish it later today.

I went back to sleep about 3:15 am and then got up at 6:15 am.  First stop would be brush my teeth and I turned on my audio book of 11-22-63 by Stephen King and continued on his adventures back in time…. (it sounds odd – but trust me it is FANTASTIC!).

Then I got in the jeep and went to fill our wood stove (yup… I am on stove duty the next three weeks!) and listened to Bitter Melon by Cara Chow my current car audio.  I am enjoying this one too!  Back in the house I made coffee to Silence by Becca Fitzpatrick… also getting good.

Now – as I continue to get ready for work and back to 11-22-63, I have to say yay for the weekend.  I really have nothing planned other than work outs and maybe some reading and writing. 

How about you – what is on your weekend agenda?  😀

The Fixer Upper by Mary Kay Andrews

When Dempsey Jo Killebrew gets caught up in a political scandal brought on by her kiniving boss, she is left suddenly unemployed, and under investigation as a possible accomplice.  Feeling the heat and having a strong desire “to get out of dodge”, she accepts an offer from her father to help restore the old family home he had recently inherited in Guthrie Georgia.  The home, known as Birdsong, is a family treasure, a Victorian Mansion that just needs a little love is what Dempsey is told… and considering the options… it sounds like a pretty sweet deal.

When Dempsey arrives in Georgia at the address her father had given her, she can not believe her eyes.  Birdsong may have been quite the home back in its day…. but “Bird poop” is more what it looks like now.  Painted a color that can only be described as “Pepto Bismo pink, windows that have been duct taped and a yard that is overgrown with wild shrubs and grass up to her waist… oh and lets not forget the inside where not only is everything worn out, musty and dated – but that would also describe the crotchety elderly woman squatter who is somehow a relation and says she is not moving out.  EVER.

Tips and Finds from Mary Kay Andrews

Top Five Renovating Tips

  1. An old house needs old doors, hardware and fixtures. Nothing says “new and cheap” faster than a flimsy hollow-core door and bright gold repro brass hardware. Look for solid wood doors and wood frame windows at salvage yards and antique markets. And don’t forget to check the “building materials” category on Craigslist. I got all the doors for my beach house off Craigslist–for $5 apiece. Vintage hardware can frequently be found at flea markets, or check online sources like eBay.
  2. Vintage light fixtures give a great look–but be sure you factor in the cost of re-wiring them, and finding good-looking shades. Nothing gives a lamp that “granny” look faster than a dingy yellow shade.
  3. Before you invest in antique cast-iron claw-foot tubs or sinks, make sure they have proper fittings. Measure drains and faucet spreads and make sure you can find new ones that will fit and function properly. Antique toilets are generally a bad idea–most local codes require low-flow toilets for water conservation.
  4. Before re-wiring a house, put together a furniture floor plan. You don’t want a heat register under the living room sofa, but you will want outlets on either side of the bed for reading lamps, and for any area that might be used as an office you’ll want plenty of grounded plugs. And how about that flat-screen television your husband wants? Plan now for cable locations.
  5. Be flexible. A great fireplace surround could become a headboard, as could an old paneled door–turned sideways. And that leaded glass window that had to be removed in the remodel? Why not fit it with mirrors and a hinge and make it into a bathroom medicine cabinet?

Top Five Best Junking Finds

  1. Pair of barrel-back armchairs–$30 at an estate sale. They were covered in gold embossed vinyl when I found ‘em. But with the legs stained ebony, and a gorgeous blue Ralph Lauren fabric reupholstery, they’re perfect by my fireplace.
  2. Set of eight antique Wedgewood black and cream transferware plates–$30 at an estate sale. The seller’s mother used some of them for cat dishes, others as an ashtray!
  3. Vintage landscape oil painting, Tuscany maybe? Or Provence? Who cares! Bought at a “divorce sale”–the ex-husband sold this beautiful painting for $50 because it had belonged to his ex-wife. I spent a small fortune framing it, but it’s the basis for a collection of treasured landscape paintings.
  4. Wicker settee, Salvation Army find for $25. I’d walked to the store, and had to hoof it back home in a hurry for money and my car.
  5. Faux alligator train case–found at a yard sale. When I asked the seller if she’d do better on the price, she replied that she’d give it to me for free–if I could figure out how to open it. Since it had a combination lock like the one on my high school graduation luggage, I twirled the dial to 0-0-0–because I never figured out how to change mine–and sure enough, the lock popped open. Score!

The Fixer Upper by Mary Kay Andrews is an over all sweet read.  Dempsey is not a ditzy woman but instead a street smart gal that is used to designer jeans and expensive footwear.   Not only is she surprised by the down home feel of Guthrie where Carharts are the comfort clothes of choice by men and women alike – but Guthrie is surprised by this petite chick who thinks she is going to single handedly fix up the mess that was is Birdsong.

I enjoyed listening to this on audio, it reminded me a bit of Hope Floats and I could picture Sandra Bullock in the part of Dempsey.  I look forward to trying other reads from Mary Kay Andrews. 

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Borrowed from my super awesome library

Morning Meanderings…. Woo Hoo! My Book Club Is In A Book!

Good morning!  I am running out the door to treat myself to a Carribou Coffee this morning so only have a minute to sqquueeee  and share that my book club has been mentioned in a book!

Last spring I was contacted by the author of this book because she had seen a post I had written about our book club and seen that we like to bring food that has to do with the book we are reading.  That is what the Book Club Cook Book is all about.  She had a list of books she wanted to be in the book and wanted book clubs to take a couple of those reads, read them and make food surrounding the book and then share with her (Judy Gelman) the review and the food we had. 

Thats normally not the way out book club rolls, we vote on a book as a group and then read it – but I asked the group is some of us were willing to do a couple of bonus reads…. an additional book to our normal stream and they said yes.  We read and reviewed Olive Kitteridge and Little Bee.  We also read and reviewed Cutting For Stone for this, but we were not chosen for that read (although…. I have to say the food we served with Cutting For Stone was amazing!)

So there it is.  That was fun and exciting! 

I am off to work and a work out later and then back home later to go through this book!  😀

January Recap

I don’t know about you all… but I had a GREAT January! (click on the pics to go to my lists of what I read)

I hit 12 states in January and 4 out of the US. 

7 of the books I read in January were not read… they were LISTENED to!  Go audio!

1 book for the e challenge…

2 books on the Dystopia Challenge

1 book read off the recommended blogger reads list

I read/listened to 16 books/audio in January. (3 of these I have yet to review)

Page count for January:  3060

Total audio minutes:  2 days and 19 minutes (holy cats that sounds like a lot!)

4 of the authors were male and 12 were female. 

13 of the 16 were new to me authors.

That’s my recap.  How did your January go? 

February! What to read… what to read…

Good morning!  *grabs COFFEE cup….. BIG SWIG*

It is now day two of my sabbatical from men. 

LOL – just kidding,  😛

Hubby Al is actually working a job out of town and I have been working, working out, a little reading…  I have woke up early the past couple of days which I actually like.  Time to have my COFFEE, and slowly ease into the day… ’cause if your life is like mine…. once the day starts….its full speed ahead to the end. 

Back to February.  Can you believe it?  Its baffling…. really.  Seems like just yesterday it was January….  😉  I organized what I have read in January last night and was pretty pleased with my start to the year.  Question is… how will it go this month or the next?  It’s always easier to sit and read when its cold outside…. 

This morning I received in my email a list of the Best Of February.  Always curious to see if I am missing out on anything… here is that list:

Behind the Beautiful Forevers by Katherine Boo
Hardcover  |  Kindle book
Delicacy by David Foenkinos
Paperback  |  Kindle book
The End of Money by David Wolman
Hardcover  |  Kindle book
The Art of Hearing Heartbeats by Jan-Philipp Sendker
Paperback  |  Kindle book
Defending Jacob by William Landay
Hardcover  |  Kindle book
Da Vinci’s Ghost by Toby Lester
Hardcover  |  Kindle book
A Good American by Alex George
Hardcover  |  Kindle book
Flatscreen by Adam Wilson
Paperback  |  Kindle book
The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey
Hardcover  |  Kindle book
Immortal Bird by Doron Weber
Hardcover  |  Kindle book

I have read none of these.  Have you?  Out of the list two interest me… maybe three.  Defending Jacob sounds pretty good, The Snow Child is one I have been seeing around and has me interested, and I am not really sure at this time what Immortal Bird is about…. but I am going to check it out. 

Have you read any of these?  Do you hope to/want to?  Are there any books that should have been on this list and are not?

Update today with ideas for good foos for the Super Bowl
Updated today with ideas for good food for the Super Bowl

Crescendo by Becca Fitzpatrick

After starting a relationship with her guardian angel, the mysterious Patch (Hush Hush), Nora has started to think things could not get better.  After all – Patch is great looking, dark, mysterious, gorgeous… and he was hers.  Yet, after a great day at the beach, Nora had said she loved him and then things went down hill quickly. 

First of all… not only did Patch not return the sentiment, he also takes off.  AND not only does he take off but he goes to Marcie Millar’s home.  MARCIE.  Nora’s nemesis.  When confronted about this, Patch seems aloof and avoids her questions.  What happened to their magical relationship?

*hmmmph!* 

Angels….

It was January 2010 when I read Hush Hush, the first book in this trilogy (see note on bottom) and GUSHED about the story.  I loved the mystery behind Patch and what he stood for… and while Nora annoyed me a bit (think Bella from the Twilight series…) it was still a worthy read/listen.

Fast forward to this second book, Crescendo.  When I seen the audio at my library I was excited to see where this one would go.  Patch was back still brooding and mysterious, and Nora…. well Nora was more annoying then the first book… I think maybe this is because I really like reading about strong female characters and ditzy ones tend to annoy me.  Maybe I need to remember that Nora is a teen and in love and if I think about it… I guess I was a bit like Nora when I was that age…. so maybe, I am just irritated with myself…. 😛

The audio is good, this one really centers around someone known as “The Black Hand” and Nora’s fathers death, which I do not recall being a big point (if a point at all) in Hush Hush. 

In the end I enjoyed it, but not as much as I enjoyed Hush Hush.  I have however heard that Silence (the third in the series) is fantastic and so I am continuing on.  Silence was released in October of 2011, so for those starting the series, all books are ready to read straight through. 

*AND – recently I hear there will be a fourth book…. called Finale.  We will be watching for that in Fall 2012.

I think this series may appeal to the 12 – 18 year old readers more than me…. Patch is truly SSSQQQQUUUUEEEE worthy and I think that age group would appreciate Nora more. 

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Borrowed from my AWESOME local library

Morning Meanderings…. A Run In With My Nemesis

Good morning all!  How are we this morning?  I am on cup of COFFEE number two, been up since 5:30 and actually feeling pretty good.  I have almost shaken off the cold/flu thing entirely and am almost ready to conquer my day (after I get ready for work, warm up my car, and pack my gym bag…)  😛

So… about the post title. 

Yesterday afternoon after running home quickly after 5 pm to let the dog out, fill the stove, and grab a couple of things before I was out the door again…. I stopped by my mail box and there she was.

I knew eventually we would run into each other.  I mean, it is a small world and all and I had no illusion that I would continue my life happily never crossing paths again…. in fact, I suppose in some sick twisted way, I had hoped this would happen.  That I would have to face her and try again to work this crazy rivalry out.

And so it happened.  She was at my mailbox….  I had my mail, I ripped open a large manilla envelope while driving (kids – only trained book lovers should attempt this)… and there she was….

Jane Eyre.

I think….

I may have screamed.

Honestly, this is not the first time I raved about her.  And in all honesty, I agreed to this encounter.  When Harper Perennial emailed me with a request to read and review Ms. Eyre… I had a mini fit, stomped my feet, slammed my laptop shut, eventually came back to the laptop, wiped away my tears and said…..  “She is a difficult woman but yes, I would like to try.”  (Honestly I did tell them that I have struggled trying to read her for years and would like the chance to try try TRY again).

So here we are.  Jane and I in the same house.  I think I will challenge myself to so many pages a week or something.  Maybe baby steps is the way to go.  I know many of you love her.  I don’t know why she hates me…. but she does.  I have never been able to read beyond the first few chapters without putting myself into a book coma.  I think she has magical (and evil) powers and she drugs me….   there is no reason why I should not be able to love this book too… but this will be my fifth attempt.

Be strong for me.

Do you have any books that are considered by the world to be “Amazing!”  “I couldn’t put it down!”  BEST book ever!” and you sit on the sidelines mumbling, “yeah…. not so much.”

If so please share with me…. I would love to know I am not alone. 

"Sheila, I take my coffee black because I do not have time to harvest sugar or make the creamer."

Oh – and if I disappear from the blogosphere….. remember…. I was last seen with Jane.  She may be small… but she is feisty.  😯